Windchill,
I arrived here married, and still am.
Being married does not hinder training whatsoever. It keeps you out of trouble and focused on your training because your spouse is constantly breathing down your neck telling you to hurry up and get a job.
We bought a place when we moved down. Most couples rent appartments of which there is a plethera of.
Obviously I am unaware of your financial situation. There is a lot of "subsidized' housing available, some of it in very nice locations. If interested, I can get you the name and number of the place that I drive by every day. It is located in Vero, in a very nice area. Has a pool, lake, etc. To qualify, you must make under a set yearly income.
Let me know if I can help.