rocketman5150
Well-Known Member
I blew two major/legacy interviews and had to re interview at third before I got a call. It worked out amazingly (so far anyway) for me in the end, but there was a lot of doubt and bitterness I had to get through in the meantime.
As for the second point... I can't emphasis this enough. While there are certainly lots and lots of things I don't miss about the daily slog at a regional, there are other things I do miss. Yes, it is much better in the big leagues, but don't write off your time there as pointless or always miserable. Also, and I can't say this enough, DO NOT let your quest for moving on to a bigger, better job get in the way of time with your spouse and family. Sure, you will have to go to job fairs and interviews on your days off, and you have to keep up with and do research on where to be submitting your applications, but DON'T let it consume you. In hindsight it may have happened anyways, but the constant stress and pressure of trying to make it to the big show, that I allowed to become part of our everyday life, was one of the biggest reasons (according to her anyway) that my marriage ended.
This.
Any stress or pressure to voluntarily change jobs is entirely self-imposed, and driven by one's personal desire to achieve "X" career goal. I'd wager that, if you ask your spouse and kids what they want, they say "Daddy/Mommy."
Families don't need a six figure income, a huge house, a high-end automobile, or other extravagances. What they DO need is to be a together. The regionals (some of them anyway) are a perfectly fine career choice. Don't trap yourself into thinking that the majors are only way to have a good life and career.
Hell, our host is a 15 year pilot for Delta, and he's too cheap to replace his travel charger, or to get the A/C in his Corolla fixed.
