If you're single and can crunch the numbers, go ahead. I'm getting married in June and we've been searching for a place to live while staying at Mom and Dad's. The fact that I can't contribute a dime is making it extremely difficult to find a place to live. This is why I am trying to decide whether or not to leave instructing full time and try to pay this loan off in 2 years while being an instructor on the side. I'm young enough to pull it off. Heck I see 40yr old guys going to the airlines.
I think if I was debt free, I'd be fine on the low starting salaries. Either way, I'll never stop flying. I'd be pretty happy flying around on the weekends until I could afford to make the jump to the airlines. But who the hell knows, I've been sitting in this situation since I had 200hrs. I'll probably just bitch and complain about it until I end up in the right seat of a jet somewhere and then the shiney jet will make all my problems go away.
Airdale, if I may make some suggestions...
I noticed your car payment and car insurance payment. Is there a way for you to sell that car and go for a more economical model? Cars, depending on their saftey features, number of seats, model, etc.., can have quite a variation in insurance costs. For instance, I used to own a Honda Del Sol. When I first bought the car I was under the impression that because it was economical, had a small engine, and was new, that my insurance may be a little bit lower. Little did I know, I was quite wrong. I sold the car a few years later and bought a brand new 1999 Ford V6 Mustang.....and my insurance DROPPED. That car and it's safety features+ my increase in age dropped my monthly car insurance bills down quite a bit.
Your food bills. My wife and I spend about $150-$200 a month for food for both of us. If yours is $150 /month, you may be able to make some concessions there (like my wife and I do). I'm not sure if you go out often or not, but if you do...STOP. You'd be suprised how much as few trips to Taco Bell late at night can add up too. Heck, 4 $10 trips to Taco Bell = $40 a month. Interestingly enough, you can spend quite a bit less on food and actually eat healthier in the long run.
Your cell phone. Unless you absolutely need one for work, I'd get rid of it. My wife and I found ourselves spending about $50 /month for our home phone and thought that was just too much. So, we switched our phone service to local ONLY, and use 10-10-987 (or whatever) for long distance calls. We weren't making long distance calls all the time, so why pay for them? That right there dropped our phone bill about $20-$25 /month. I wouldn't get a cell phone unless you need one, or one is given to you by your place of employment.
I think a lot of times when people are trying to figure out what they can afford, they too often look at it from a "what if I don't change anything in my lifestyle" point of view. There are areas all over the place that changes can be made if you sit down and just take some notes, writing down what you "want" and what you "need" can be a real eye-opener.
I'm not sure how the ATP hours work, but are you able to possibly teach every other day, and work the days you aren't flying? Heck, if you can't do that, why not just instruct on the side and work full time, that's probably what I would do. It's not like you won't be getting any hours. The closer you get to paying off your debt, you can slowly begin to transition over to flying full time if you want. It might be the best of both worlds. Like most things in life, anything worth having is worth working (and making sacrifices) for.
You CAN do it. How, is up to you (and your soon to be wife..NEVER forget about her!).
