I get some folks want the full Monty including the cake and celebratory festivities. I’ve never been a spotlight or celebratory type person. I feel like Scottie Scheffler at his press conference when he said golf didn’t define him..it was just what he did. Winning and awards lasted about 5 mins and then he was concentrating on the next thing.
I enjoyed flying and considered it a boyhood passion that took me on a journey even I didn’t think was possible. Somewhere along the way though it quit being a passion and became just a job. A great job…but a job nonetheless. By 60 I had completed what I had set out to do as a youngster but couldn’t wait to get out and find another passion. I was tired of the grind, the constant and forever changing and restrictive oversight by the company and FAA, and most importantly, missing family events or taking rain checks with friends.
I didn’t need another hour of jet time, landings or hotel/rental car points. Didn’t need another type rating either. None of that was personally fulfilling to me anymore. I really don’t miss the flying and yet realize how incredibly lucky I was to leave on my terms and not dictated by a medical issue, death or fired. The *Only* thing I truly miss are the people I met and worked/flew with along the way.
For the youngsters who are just starting out…
Be professional, dependable and reliable.
The hard times make the good times that much sweeter….so enjoy the entire ride! I learned infinitely more from my mistakes than from my successes. Except golf…it’s a stupid game and I’ve learned nothing!

For those who mostly live via social media…learn to put the put the camera down or at least turn the camera and focus on others, events and interesting destinations. Constantly filming yourself and talking about *you* is an empty endeavor that leads to nowhere except narcissism that, ironically, is not an attractive quality.
Be nice to folks in your work environment regardless of their position as you have no idea what they may be going through in their personal life. Besides, they may become your boss one day.
For those lucky enough to get to their dream job….slow down, take time to smell the flowers and enjoy the ride. As they say..the days go by slow but the years go by fast is so true. I still remember my first day of Indoc and my retirement flight. Everything else is a blur and looking back seem to go by at warp speed.