Hi, Michelle:
I registered as a new user this afternoon so I could respond to your post, as you and your husband are in about the same position that my husband and I were a year ago. We live in Colorado, and due to weather and the various FBO issues your husband is also experiencing it was just taking too long for him to get his training done. So we, too, found ourselves in the position for searching for a more structured and consistent training program.
Sounds like you're checking out all the major FL flight schools, which is good. We did, too, before my husband Troy left home for flight school. (Unfortunately, my job doesn't "travel" well, and we need my steady and good income to keep us going!) Our route turned out to be a bit "bumpy," since Troy chose Airline Training Academy in Orlando and was there about 3 weeks before the owners shut the doors and ran off with everyone's money ($45k for us).
Aaaanyway, Troy is now at FlightSafety, is very happy there and would definitely recommend it. (I'm here because my husband, like yours, is not a real message board kind of guy
) When you visit the schools, be very skeptical of promises they may make about guaranteed interviews, relationships they supposedly have with airlines (which is how Troy was "wowed" by ATA), and by all means do not give them your money in advance.
Also, to the extent you are able, consider the school's financial condition. A lot of them are privately held corporations that could shut down with no notice at all (like ATA). One of the reasons why we chose FlightSafety is because it's a public corporation, owned by Berkshire Hathaway (CEO Warren Buffet). They're not going to disappear without warning. Once bitten, twice shy!
Troy's just about finished at FlightSafety with his CME, and is next going to Eagle Jet. (For those who want to flame me, don't bother -- I've already read all your opinions about PFT.) For us, FlightSafety was definitely the right choice, even if Troy took kind of a roundabout way to get there. Their aircraft and instructors are top-notch and Troy has never missed a flight because of a maintenance problem. It's pricey, but if you have the money I think it's money well spent.
Good luck to you and your husband!!
Kathleen