I'm glad I'm not alone in some of this… is it a regional thing, where many FO's are as green as can be?
If it's my radios and ATC asks "say Mach number".. 9/10 captains will say, "say .79" .. I'm thinking, "well, I'm able to read, and it says we're doing .79.. are you expecting me to say .82?"
The flap-hoverer used to intimidate me into putting flaps down earlier than I planned… now that I have experience and confidence.. I just wait until I'm ready and let them sweat there for awhile..
I haven't jump-seated much, if any, on regional jumpseats.. when I commute, it's always mainline American. Obviously, the experience level of a mainline FO is way higher than most regional FO… and maybe that explains what I'm wondering about: it seems at the regional level, there's a LOT of "coaching" and a lot of it is unnecessary - I've talked with other FOs who are driven practically crazy by the unnecessary "coaching" and I know when I'm upfront on mainline, there's none of that - if it's the FO's leg and they say they're doing something a certain way, unless it's unsafe or illegal (which has never been the case), that's the way it's going to be… a lot of the time I say something like that and the captain decides for me that we're doing something else.
Maybe regional CA's just suck??