Toria
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we should take opportunities to educate and correct people instead of just punishing them.
Now you sound very Liberal! May I accuse you of that??
we should take opportunities to educate and correct people instead of just punishing them.
Now you sound very Liberal! May I accuse you of that??
...his behavior was rewarded by a "lecture" instead of a consequence...missing his trip.
I'll tell you what I would have done. CalCapt is a nice guy...too nice. What he did is called enabling. Because, I guarantee you the next time the initial circumstances are repeated, the Xjet jerk will do exactly the same thing. He'll take the jumpseat and the offline guy will be left holding the bag.
I would have told him the story and then invited him to pound sand. Toughlove, you might call it. But, CalCapt got the guy to nod his head, act contrite and still got the ride to work. In other words, he paid no penance for his bad behavior.
If CalCapt would have denied him, then he would have learned his lesson. The only lesson this jerk learned is that CalCapt can be abused and won't retaliate.
That's what I've learned about pilots in general. They are very non-confrontational.
I applaud CalCapt for his maganimaty. However, just as with dogs and kids, sometimes they learn better from suffering the consequences of their bad actions/judgment. I reiterate, if this bonehead had missed his trip, he would have learned a WHOLE lot more about jumpseat courtesy.
Accuse all you want, I'm a pretty progressive person![]()
Completely off topic: How is the political scene looking for you this Fall? Still Obama?
On topic: Teaching and learning moments come every day in large and small packages. The effectiveness of the teacher is directly proportional to the receptiveness of the student. Wanting to learn has more to do with learning than anything else. Hopefully there was some receptivity to learning in this situation.
I can't get behind Hilliary, Rudy or McCain because I think they're all megalomaniacs that are interested in doing nothing more than feeding their own ego's. I'll be voting for Obama, but I like Edwards and Richardson also. Thompson hasn't convinced me he's a giant sack of crap yet, though there's still time!
Oh and I don't think Ron Paul is a real piece of crap either, I find myself voting libertarian a lot when there isn't a green party candidate.
Not necessarily.
It seems as though you equate "consequence" with a concrete action that happens to somebody. What about that sinking feeling in one's gut, that, "Oh crap, I really screwed up this time," feeling that makes you never want to do something again?
I've learned a lot of lessons that way in life. One time a good friend overheard me gossiping about him behind his back and he confronted me on it. I felt horrible and sincerely apologized. Ever since then I've watched my tongue a lot more closely. I learned my lesson from a *feeling* and not an *action*.
The captain of the flight kicked my captain off the flight and let her on.