Ian_J
Hubschrauber Flieger
Yup. Kris was just gone for three months. When she left she had no idea how long she'd be gone. Right up until she returned home, she had no idea how long she'd be gone. Yeah, it sucked big monkey balls to be separated for that long (however I was in Iraq for a year... talk about an absence for an undetermined amount of time!), but it was just something she had to do. I understood.
As to the OP's original situation: I remember a JC member who hasn't posted in a while whose husband was desperately trying to become an airline pilot. However, he simply couldn't get the appropriate time-building jobs where his family lived and his career lanquished as he struggled to build time. His family suffered financially as his part time CFI job really didn't pay the bills, and his time with his family suffered as he had to get a 2nd job to help support them.
Had they been willing to have him move away for a short period of time to get a good time building job he would have been able to get an airline job sooner, put their family on a better financial track, and would have been able to spend more time together eventually. As long as everyone shares a common goal, short term pain can lead to long term gain. (And I believe that eventually the family I'm referring to finally did do just what I described.)
As to the OP's original situation: I remember a JC member who hasn't posted in a while whose husband was desperately trying to become an airline pilot. However, he simply couldn't get the appropriate time-building jobs where his family lived and his career lanquished as he struggled to build time. His family suffered financially as his part time CFI job really didn't pay the bills, and his time with his family suffered as he had to get a 2nd job to help support them.
Had they been willing to have him move away for a short period of time to get a good time building job he would have been able to get an airline job sooner, put their family on a better financial track, and would have been able to spend more time together eventually. As long as everyone shares a common goal, short term pain can lead to long term gain. (And I believe that eventually the family I'm referring to finally did do just what I described.)