I find flamers on all sites. Some think it's cool to go from message board to message board flaming certain posters. Don't participate for awhile and the flamers will find different targets.
I think it's great for newbies to start asking questions before commitiing to a flight school, a flying career, or the military. This is an essential preflight planning step. FAQs were created on USENET and IRC for this reason. Jetcareers, flightinfo, SPN, and so on need to create their own FAQ and leave them as the top thread in each forum, or as one link at the top of the forum pages. Unlike gardening or dog training, many aviation questions have two or more answers. Therefore the FAQ needs a yes and a no answer (pro/con), or links to the posts that discuss them.
Some starter questions for a FAQ:
Dear flight school manager, I am a CFI/ATP/CPL, can your school give me a job?
I need a scholarship/sponsorship/free flight training course.
I am in X country and want to train in the U.S., can you issue me a VISA?
Should I go to one of those big flight training companies as they say I will get interviewed by a regional/major/cargo/charter airline?
Should I quit my $50,000 a year job and take out $60,000 in loans to attend X academy?
Should I get a degree?
An aviation degree?
A masters degree?
A high school diploma or a GED?
I can't seem to land the airplane and all we are doing is touch and gos, can you help?
My CFI yells at me, is this normal?
There are many more.
Fly SAFE!
Jedi Nein