are not worth much. But:
Retracting the flaps during the landing roll does indeed help stop the aircraft in a shorter distance then aerodynamic and normal braking does during a normal landing. Hence, most manufacturers recommend retracting flaps during the landing roll for a short field landing. The FAA can not frown on this situation because it is recommended in the POH that they approved! Try doing a short field landing in a 20-30 kt crosswind and tell me that retracting the flaps didn't help with stopping distance and directional control.
Now, we have all heard of the Bonanza horror stories of the gear came up instead of the flaps... It is a logical argument because depending on the year and model of the Bonanza, the gear and flap levers are in the same exact places, just switched around (i.e. the gear lever on "Bonanza X" is now exactly where the flap lever was on "Bonanza Y" and vice versa). So be careful with those Doctor Killers

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Also, you don't see most jets doing this procedure because the wings stop creating lift on touchdown due to GLD's (Ground Lift Dumping devices). GLD's are the spoilers on top of the wings that pop out upon touchdown. They either come out automatically, or they are manually pulled by the pilot (hmmm...does the FAA frown on that configuration change on the roll out???) That is why you rarely see airliners bounce, the GLD's kill the lift as soon as they get the Weight on Wheels signal. (I have seen a CRJ 700 bounce, the GLD's on that airplane won't deploy until you have WonW AND the thrust levers at idle...i guess that pilot didn't touch down at idle and he bounced like a...bouncing thingy..).
So I guess there is something to be said for having all the weight on your wheels to help decrease stopping distance. Light piston airplanes suggest doing it in the POH's for short field landings, and most modern jets do it automatically to get the weight on the wheels. When I fly small aircraft that has a procedure calling for the retraction of flaps on a short field...i say do it if you need it...its called "flying the plane". If you don't need to retract them, don't do it...its called "flying the plane".
Whew...rant over

As for leaning on the ground...if it keeps your plugs clean you should do it.