surreal1221
Well-Known Member
I'd go.
To those that have posted responses, thank you. To those that gave detailed answers, thanks even more. It is giving me plenty to mull over and think about for the weekend.
I guess I need to address some of the more common things that are showing up in this thread. Stuff like family, my wife, quality of life, stability, etc.
I have had the opportunity to talk things over with my family... namely, both my wife and my Mother. My wife supports me no matter what. Her only concern is for our happiness. This opportunity just might be what we both need to be extremely happy with where our marriage is taking us. Right now, I am a junior FO, with just enough seniority to bounce between a highspeed line and reserve (build up line then), so me being able to have a second job is hard, especially when I go from one month of being available every day, to the next when I am gone on 3 and 4 day trips. In order for us to survive financially right now, she has two jobs, one from almost 8-5 M-F and another that she works at later in the night for about 3 hours. Needless to say, it is very stressful and hard on her not only being away from home all the time and hardly seeing me, but also being fatigued every day of the week. With this opportunity I have before me, more than likely she will end up working as a bookkeeper for the flying service, working less hours and working with me. I will be able to sleep in my bed at my house with my wife each and every night. That in itself is as valuable to me as anything.
As far as the rest of my family (that would be only my Mother and my Mother-in-law)... My Mom is indifferent. Yes, I am her only child, but she also wants me to be happy, and she sees this as an opportunity to get back into a segment of aviation that I love. When I first told her about it, she only mentioned that she has always wanted to get back and visit that part of the world. I have not talked to my mother-in-law yet, but my wife has.
I know the type of lifestyle this job will bring. I've been there before, even have a stack of t-shirts to go with it. Thing is, I initially left for reasons of my own that are personal enough I will not share them here, but let's just say that I have spent the last several years "searching" for where I belong in aviation. I am not one who has every truly desired to fly for the majors in (insert type here... 747, A330, etc). I was born and raised in an aviation household, so it is really all I know. Really don't care where or what I am flying, just as long as I am flying. As of right now, this opportunity also presents much better long term possibilities than flying 121 does. Sure, if I stay, I will eventually have a better QOL, and I will eventually upgrade. With the other, there is immediate chances for rapid growth from a single pilot operation (mostly) to an operation with 2-3 pilots and planes if not more. There are also the possibilities of opening (or buying) a charter operation also. In short, the potential is there for a full time flying job to end up in something like a chief pilot, director of operations, or manager/pilot. As far as the QOL, what does it matter that I have 18 days off when my wife is working two jobs. I still won't see her that much, and to me, seeing my wife every day and our (not just my) QOL trumps what type of aircraft/operation I am flying.
I guess after reading this, it seems my mind is pretty made up. I have a meeting with my friend on Tuesday. We are sitting down face to face and talking this over in depth, so I will know more then.
Again, to those that made comments already, thank you...
To those who still want to make comments, please do, you might bring up something I (or everyone else) hasn't thought about.
Good for you for making the decision. Sounds like you're making it for the right reasons, too. Maybe we'll actually get to fly together before you head out the door.![]()
Hey T-cart and Ctab - what are the downsides to this business? I only see the good - cool planes, money and cool planes. What are the bad parts of Ag?
Going to work in the dark and getting off work in the dark.I hate that part.
And the reverse of that... going to work in the last of daylight and watching the sun rise the next morning...:nana2:
Only weenies and girly-men would choose to fly plush airliners over the manly job flying 750hp+ taildraggers mere feet over the ground.