Have you ever seen the movie "Two Can Play That Game"? I believe she calls it "Spring Fever"... Every one has been cooped up all winter and now it's spring and all these people are going out, dressing to a T, and some want that spring freshness...
Yeah, it's not like dudes haven't been cheating on women since time began.
Sorry about your girlfriend, but don't worry, you'll get over it, and probably find someone more compatible for you.
Eh, I might be
somewhat promiscuous. But, then I'm single, so I can do what I want.
But, being gay, and knowing the stereotypical sexual patterns of men, I'd say that I'm extremely gun shy about commitment, just because I fear being hurt.
But, I do believe in monogamy, and if I ever were to settle down, I'd be faithful.
I believe in quality over quantity. Lots of gay men, hold out, always thinking they can do better, and that if they settle down, they might miss out on something, or someone better.
I'm a realist, in that I know that there
will always be someone younger, hotter et al. But, I believe like "the play" personality is the "thing," the glue, that keeps people together, and happy.
Not something, as petty as physical attraction. Now, if only other gay and heterosexual men and women also knew the same!