Mike,
Short answer yes you can major in whatever you like and minor in professional flight, which is all your flight ratings to include Commercial, Instrument and Multi Engine. To enroll in the CFI CFII and MEI course you just need to have completed AVIT 325. The minor in professional flight is all those flight courses and their associated ground schools. Not too much on top of your other major's class load.
However, if you are not planning on flying professionally, ie airlines, corporate, air ambulance, cargo, etc. I would advise against UND for flight training and look at GFK Flight support,
www.flygfk.com (I think they still do instruction) or look over in Crookston KCKN. UND's 141 program is geared around crew type flying, checklists, SOPs, etc. For someone who just wants to be a "private" pilot the rigidity of the course may be too much in terms of "why am I doing this?" You can be a perfectly safe and competent pilot without all the other stuff that "professional" pilots add in to work as a crew in a revenue generating environment.
Nope, you are just the same old tired lazy kid who doesn't want to work for what they want. No one was or is going to hold your hand the whole time and when you realized it the only way to protect your ego was to lash out and bash. You have never given a precise example of anyone not caring or helping or talking down to you. All you have done is bash the good people of GFK, call the city a "slophole" and complain about having to walk outside, like that is some kind of human rights violation that requires the UN to be involved.
Just like the little clique, you were so desperate to be a part of, before you; you have not and cannot provide any valid criticisms of UND as a school or flight program. There are plenty of us out in the workforce now as Captains, CP, DOs etc who think UND did an ok job as do our employeers, check airmen, etc. If you can't handle the small amount of bureocratic red tape that is present at UND, just move to MT now and build a cabin.