I said I was sorry I have nothing against you I was upset about something else and should not have taken it out on you sorry again could we start over and info you have would help thanks and again sorry hope we can put this behind us
I think most of the good info has already been covered.
Get a degree in something you enjoy, not aviation.
If you want to go military, go to one of the sites dedicated to the branch you want to read and use the search function. See if you have the qualifications, eye sight, no health or physical issues. Join ROTC if you like.
If you go private again, read as much as you can on here, most of the questions you will have in the next few months while starting the process have been asked numerous times. Go into the ATP section, career changer section and just look at some of the older pages on the general topics section.
Get your private first, see if you like it truly. Go to a few different FBO's, dont focus on just price. Talk to the instructors, current students and walk around the airport and see the airplanes. Get a feel for the operation and if it is what you are looking for. if not, say thanks and move on, dont be pressured.
You also need to be honest with yourself. Flying a cessna/piper is not the same as flying a boeing. Flying GA you do what you want, have fun and go where you want. Flying commercial, your a tool, you do what your told to do for as cheaply as they can get a pilot for. Are you ok with that? Do you want a family, house, nice car, decent food before your 30? Are you willing to literally start all over again at the bottom of the pay scale and seniority list when your 40, 50, 60 potentially? Do you have any medical issues that could or will cause you to lose your first class medical at some point in the future?
Lastly, dont go in focusing on the airlines, there is so much more to aviation than the airlines. Dont get sold on a flight school because they make good airline pilots or have an agreement with a regional or any other marketing BS. Learn to be a good all around pilot as Waco already said. You dont have to follow his plan, but dont go to one of those schools where they tell you where to go, when to go and how to go. Whats the fun in that? Fly somewhere where you can take your friends up and fly to the beach, being in York its not that far of a trip and a ton of fun. Fly a place that will allow you to take their planes into a grass strip and teach you how to truly do a soft field landing. Most of all, have fun. The focus is not the destination but the journey, if you go in thinking the opposite, you've already lost.