That was a clumsy way to ask that question. I have interviewed a lot of people over the years (not in aviation) and I get the intention of questions like that. It is really more about demonstrating maturity and life experience, which are valid qualities to look for in addition to job specific skills. I could see myself asking something along those lines, but perhaps wording it like "Can you share an experience where you think you earned someones respect?"
Related but mostly off topic, this reminded me of my only airline interview back in 2005. I am sure I am butchering this, but somewhere in there I got a question along the lines of "What makes you think you are ready to become an airline FO with only 1400hrs (or whatever the number was in that ballpark)?" My honest first response with smile... "Because I have more than twice the hours most of your current captains got hired with!"

Of course I followed that up with a more legit answer, but I did get offered the job (which I turned down).