I actually was thinking after reading your responses this AM, "I need to write this out."
Which is precisely why I started this post. 10 days ago I was waiting until August, period. Then someone whose opinion I value greatly said I was crazy to do so. Then I started thinking. And you guys have echoed what he said, which has made my mind up.
I really thank you all for your input and for humoring my questions about all this. Just as my clients have (usually) never been married before and don't know how a wedding day timeline should be laid out, I've never even begun to go through the hiring process for a job like this so have been trying to go into it with eyes as open as much as a first timer can have. Right now I'm balancing being home based with an airline presently having issues with commuting to an airline that has been historically very stable and also another that has had very good movement lately and has a commute that is even drivable (3.5 hours). Im trying to balance and weigh QOL with commuting/home base with pay. I'm researching all I can between flying and getting my instrument work on point again, and I'll be honest, it can be hard to get good research outside of actually talking to local folks due to, well, I'm sure you guys read the "other forum". I appreciate all this input so much as I get all this figured out...but it is going to be game on for me now because yes, I want to go fly.