We just moved to one in April and I love it. Its a smaller airpark just outside of Cincinnati with a 3000 foot grass strip. My wife and I both have a lot of options for our careers in this area so we decided not to worry about the resale, hopefully we will be here for 30 years and it will have served its purpose. I love being able to come home after work at midnight and spend an hour or two working on the plane. All my tools are now in one place, not scattered between the garage, hangar, truck, plane etc. Taxing down your driveway and landing at home is awesome, nothing like looking at the sky, thinking I want to go flying and being in the air 15 mins later.
It sounds like this place has had its fair share of issues with neighbors and people not getting along but so far everyone has been easy going and its been nice being able to chat airplanes with the neighbors or borrow a tool if you need one. If things get too heated, Ill just hang out in the hangar, no one says you have to be social. I'm sure the dynamics here are a bit different with only 15 or so places on 5+ acre lots; people are probably less concerned with what their neighbors are doing since they are not right on top of them.
I'd say go for it if you can but I'm still new to it myself so take my advice lightly