I know this post wasn't directed at me, but I really have to answer to this based on my personal experiences in life:
Quite frankly, some of your advice is good while some of it is...well let's just say, not well thought out.
The way I look at it, life is an adventure. Adventure is never easy but, it has its thrilling moments as well as its depressing moments. Adventure comes through taking action on your dreams. Success comes having a well thought out plan then working hard to achieve the plan for your dream. But, if you just sit there dreaming, things will never happen, will it?
I know some of you out there think money will solve all of your problems--take it from me--it won't--money creates it's own problems. I personally know many miserable millionaires and even a couple of miserable billionaires who are chained to the corporate board room and desperately wish they could bring themselves to do what I am doing.
At various times in my life I have been short of money and other times I have had more than I have ever dared to dream of. Trust me, while money is nice to have, it won't make you any happier, you can never get enough of it, and the more you have, the more certain "undesirable" types come out of the woodwork and attempt to take it away. If you measure your worth by your bank account, you really need to reconsider the definition of success. With that said, yes, it is important to make some money--and, that is a challenge we all have in whatever we do.
I've heard the words "DON'T BE STUPID" so many many times in my life, and you know what? I have always enjoyed the greatest amount of success when I've ignored those words with respect to following my dreams.
Lowly Flight Instructor? In my book you're a god for following your heart. Give yourself some credit, man! Some credit counceling that is. I can tell your choice of career is not the problem--your only problem is that you've made some financial mistakes along the way, which happens to even great lawyers, business men, and software engineers too, believe it or not. Seek help and advice on that from the right people and things will get better, trust me.
Hollywood, I do appreciate your advice on going the corporate route. I will consider anything that will help me as I embark on a new career. So, thank you for that.
My advice to the Oil of Bob: if career in aviation is your dream--go for it! Don't let anyone stand in your way. But, understand what you are getting into first and what is motivating you, compare it to your current "adventure" in life as a lawyer, and have a good and realistic action plan that will take you were you want to go.
Heath, sorry for taking over your thread. You can have it back now. I sure hope I have a chance to meet you someday.
Zippiguy
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For the love of god man! your thinking about quiting practicing law for aviation! DON'T BE STUPID. Get your pilots license and buy your own plane. Keep aviation as a hobby. Take it from a lowly flight instructor- IT AIN'T WORHT IT! Don't get me wrong, I love flying but I wish I would have kept it a hobby and not a career. Now, I'm so far in to it, with debt I'll never be able to pay off, I'm stuck. You guys in your mid to late 30's (or older) need to face the fact that there is a good chance you will never make it to a major. That means you'll be stuck in the regionals making no money for the rest of your careers. You'll always hear people say "it's not about the money, it's about being happy with your career". Your happiness will fade when you do your W-2 at the end of the year. My advice to you would be to do your training at an airport where there is a lot of corporate traffic. Go kiss some serious butt for a few years while instructing and try to go that route.
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