Two things:
1) AirDog. That is one hell of a first post. Have you been lurking for like 3 or 4 years to write a post that good? Anyway, kudos to that post.
2) Life is not that difficult. Just do what makes you happy. It took me almost 35 years to really figure that out for me, so kudos to those who can figure it out sooner and work toward it.
By the way, here is how simple like is. TexasFlyer needs these things to be ultimately happy, but nothing more... nothing less...:
1) BASIC ROOF OVER HEAD to keep warm in winter and cool in summer
2) DECENT FOOD to keep him nourished
3) CHEAP RELIABLE VEHICLE to get around town
4) MUSIC to relax him and entertain him
5) FLYING because for some unknown reasons airplanes make him smile
6) BASIC MOTORCYCLE to ride when just needs to get away
7) A GOOD WOMAN to share life, love, and common interests with
8) A FRIEND or FAMILY MEMBER whom I can relate to and count on
Really, I need nothing more than those 8things. And right now I have every one of those almost. I'm almost flying as a career, which is the only way I will be in an airplane enough to satisfy the disease it seems. And in a couple months once I am there with my first CFI job. Then I get to work on #7 since that's been missing in my life for a whole year now. And that's really the only thing truly missing right now, but it'll come with time once again.
And since that's all I need, I found those needs do not take a whole lot of money. Basic rent. I know how to cook. Kia's function, Honda's are nicer, but no need to ever own a BMW again. Music is mostly free. Flying will be my job and still provide a smile (most days, as we all know nothing is always perfect). Used bikes are cheap and with gas prices, pretty smart right now. Friends and family are free. Woman I don't understand and can be expensive, so I must pick carefully.
And of course, out of ll this, the only ones in my list that even relate to jobs are music, flying, and motorcycles. Well, from experience I know my music career was short lived and motorcycle racing was a painful. So seeing bands for fun and riding on weekends makes sense in this case. Plus I know, trying to do the kind of flying I would do as a hobby would bankrupt me, even when making $150k to $200k per year doing something I do not enjoy that is not on that list above (add plane costs, rental cars at destinations, fees, begging friends to help cover some costs when you take them along, etc. ouch!). So flying makes the perfect job to me based on what makes me smile each day. After all, those 8 items are my "dreams" of the "simple life".
As you can see, following your dreams is not that hard. Just break it down into parts and keep it real. And also, be flexible if anything changes, as things do change over time. List out the things you ENJOY and NEED, nothing more or less. Then figure out how to integrate that into your life, nothing more or less. I've done a lot of motivational speaking and private life coaching over the years. Every time the result has been positive for my client.
And, I even took my own life coaching advice, and that's the hardest thing to do! Easy to give advice. But sometime hard to even take your own advice. I'm glad I took my own advice and that I am living my dreams. I wish I took the chance sooner though, instead of being brain washed into thinking money and stability was everything. As I learned, stability does not exists outside of the protected government jobs that still are around (yes, I too lost everything after 9-11 and come close one other time after a sudden reduction of force). And no matter how much money you make, it's never enough because something always comes up that seems to take it from you. Must be the way of the world.
Rant over...