I sympathize with these two because I've been that Capt. And wanted to do what he did. I too feel over taxed for govt programs I don't agree with. We are social creatures. We tend to group with those like minded. The same reason I hang out here instead of some underwater basket weaving forum. I've stated here before I have trouble with empathy. It's hard to see a viewpoint you don't agree with. But originally we weren't talking about me. I didn't marginalize the way a person felt in this conversation.
Which word(s) are you having trouble with?