This is a word of warning to all pilots as well as a plea for advice.
As pilots we are trained, nay, hardwired to seek out, find, evaluate, and mitigate risk. We look for problems with every situation, trying to find all the ways something could go wrong. Nothing ever catches us off guard and most every problem has a solution before they happen. It's an admirable trait, one that makes us very good at what we do. In everyday life it makes us better organizers, managers, coaches, drivers, etc. For many of us, it's part of our personality.
If you think that pilots are bad about this, spend some time around engineers. The most important part of the job is telling people why something either won't work, or will add enough risk that it doesn't outweigh the potential cost savings.
If you think that pilots are bad about this, spend some time around engineers. The most important part of the job is telling people why something either won't work, or will add enough risk that it doesn't outweigh the potential cost savings.
Sales Engineers are even more insipid this way because we're so damned trustworthy.![]()
I already told you: I deal with the god damn customers so the engineers don't have to. I have people skills; I am good at dealing with people. Can't you understand that? What the hell is wrong with you people?
Sales Engineers are even more insipid this way because we're so damned trustworthy.![]()
The current title en vogue for us is "Solution Architect."
The more impressive the title, the less they generally know what they are talking about. Which usually involves "Leveraging practices in their wheelhouse, challenging your thinking, and rightshoring the as-is to-be."
I'll be real with you here.
Personally, I am like that myself, always aware of what COULD happen. But once I run a scenario through my head, if the conclusion is not, "There is a REALISTIC/OVERWHELMING probability of (going to jail/getting injured/being absolutely screwed)", then I just don't worry about it, relax, and have fun. Life's too short. You'll be fine in the end, just live it. Use that same "risk mitigation" skillset to have fun. Think about it. For all the "Oh dear god. What IF this happens right now, this remote possibility that could END LIFE AS WE KNOW IT", think "Ok, let's be real, is the probability that this is going to kill me/get me fired/get me arrested? Any higher than me dying in my sleep tonight? No? Ok then let's go". We're not talking flying jets, we're talking living life and being a normal person. And we're all normal, that is just the thing. We're people. It doesn't matter what you do for a living, where you live, what your name is, or who your friends are. To everyone else you're a stranger on the street who they pay no mind anymore than you would them. Just because we pilots, being God's gift to man, may have thought about a negative outcome and Regular Joe Dumbass next to us hasn't does not mean that we are more likely to get hurt/killed/arrested than Joe because we had the super human ability to think about what could happen and the "normal" person didn't.
I could press my genitals against the glass of the control tower and shake what my mama gave me at the world below. Is there a chance someone will see me? There is a chance. But what is the probability? With everything there is to look at in this big world, the window pane I'm in way up in the tower? Very low. Probability they're recording? Lower. Probability that said video is so focused on me at high resolution that I won't win the game of "They said I did WHAT? You waste my time with this filth? How dare you, take your accusations and leave them in the gutter with your mind"? Minuscule, at best. Conclusion: Rock out with your...that.
Of course, if I were to, hypothetically of course, do this routinely, the probability of it catching up to me increases tenfold over time. But that is what risk-mitigation is right? Knowing just how much you can(safely) get away with, mastering it, and not ever digging the hole deeper than you can climb out of if it all were to blow up in your face. Or is it to just avoid all situations that could possibly lead to new and difficult situations and live a routine and safe life? That's up to you to decide. There is no right or wrong answer, but if you pick one and the other seems more appealing, then maybe it is time to re-evaluate things.
I'm not saying to just go and be an ass(which you can totally say on here), this is me using humor to teach a real lesson. Just. Be. A person. Whatever person you want to be. If you want to be Negative Nancy, be negative Nancy. But when people don't want to be around you, accept it. Sometimes for the sake of interpersonal relations, and just not being a wiener in general, you need to learn to just put your fate in the hands of the universe and know you'll be OK in the end. Just like you do every time your aircraft leaves the ground and you know a bomb could blow you out of the sky and you'd never see it coming. It could. But it won't. So just do it.
I feel like the majority of people who ask questions like this(no knock on the OP or any of you) are actually quite content with who they are and have no plans to think or live differently. That's fine. But, what are we talking about at that point? What people think about you, because they can't put themselves in your shoes, so they judge you, and these intangible thoughts that pass as judgement deep in the empty caves of their inner thought manifest themselves and affect our thoughts and actions how, exactly?
Good advice I once got from a famous person. "What other people say about you is none of your business".
I'll be real with you here.
Personally, I am like that myself, always aware of what COULD happen. But once I run a scenario through my head, if the conclusion is not, "There is a REALISTIC/OVERWHELMING probability of (going to jail/getting injured/being absolutely screwed)", then I just don't worry about it, relax, and have fun. Life's too short. You'll be fine in the end, just live it. Use that same "risk mitigation" skillset to have fun. Think about it. For all the "Oh dear god. What IF this happens right now, this remote possibility that could END LIFE AS WE KNOW IT", think "Ok, let's be real, is the probability that this is going to kill me/get me fired/get me arrested? Any higher than me dying in my sleep tonight? No? Ok then let's go". We're not talking flying jets, we're talking living life and being a normal person. And we're all normal, that is just the thing. We're people. It doesn't matter what you do for a living, where you live, what your name is, or who your friends are. To everyone else you're a stranger on the street who they pay no mind anymore than you would them. Just because we pilots, being God's gift to man, may have thought about a negative outcome and Regular Joe Dumbass next to us hasn't does not mean that we are more likely to get hurt/killed/arrested than Joe because we had the super human ability to think about what could happen and the "normal" person didn't.
I could press my genitals against the glass of the control tower and shake what my mama gave me at the world below. Is there a chance someone will see me? There is a chance. But what is the probability? With everything there is to look at in this big world, the window pane I'm in way up in the tower? Very low. Probability they're recording? Lower. Probability that said video is so focused on me at high resolution that I won't win the game of "They said I did WHAT? You waste my time with this filth? How dare you, take your accusations and leave them in the gutter with your mind"? Minuscule, at best. Conclusion: Rock out with your...that.
Of course, if I were to, hypothetically of course, do this routinely, the probability of it catching up to me increases tenfold over time. But that is what risk-mitigation is right? Knowing just how much you can(safely) get away with, mastering it, and not ever digging the hole deeper than you can climb out of if it all were to blow up in your face. Or is it to just avoid all situations that could possibly lead to new and difficult situations and live a routine and safe life? That's up to you to decide. There is no right or wrong answer, but if you pick one and the other seems more appealing, then maybe it is time to re-evaluate things.
I'm not saying to just go and be an ass(which you can totally say on here), this is me using humor to teach a real lesson. Just. Be. A person. Whatever person you want to be. If you want to be Negative Nancy, be negative Nancy. But when people don't want to be around you, accept it. Sometimes for the sake of interpersonal relations, and just not being a wiener in general, you need to learn to just put your fate in the hands of the universe and know you'll be OK in the end. Just like you do every time your aircraft leaves the ground and you know a bomb could blow you out of the sky and you'd never see it coming. It could. But it won't. So just do it.
I feel like the majority of people who ask questions like this(no knock on the OP or any of you) are actually quite content with who they are and have no plans to think or live differently. That's fine. But, what are we talking about at that point? What people think about you, because they can't put themselves in your shoes, so they judge you, and these intangible thoughts that pass as judgement deep in the empty caves of their inner thought manifest themselves and affect our thoughts and actions how, exactly?
Good advice I once got from a famous person. "What other people say about you is none of your business".
-_- Sigh.
The question was asked how people with that mindset manage to not let it adversely affect their social lives, and I shared my experience of how to sit back and enjoy life despite all the "what ifs". Quite simple really. Take it, leave it, print it out and wipe your ass with it. Whatever you fancy.
It's an example. I could have used flying naked, pooping in the back of a public bus, any number of things. All of which don't matter as they are purely example. The intention was to get a laugh while getting a point across. But apparently me expressing myself on a board where I am always myself comes off as being drunk. Ok, I'm not hijacking this thread, have fun.I mean...you talked about pressing your balls up to the window of the tower cab...
My wife loves to run the gas tank down to empty, and that just about drives me to insanity.
What's wrong with a little game of petro-roulette?
Story time!What's wrong with a little game of petro-roulette?