cmill
Cold Ass Honky
killbilly, I completely agree. They are not mutually exclusive, which is why it (flying for GA while working on my CFI, etc..) is a route that I have considered.
This is what I've learned in the short time I've been on Earth; 1. Life is not fair. 2. Nobody is going to pay my bills should I fall on my face, not a union, and not a corporation. 3. I am exactly in life where I put myself mentally. 4. My goals and objectives define what and where I want to be. 5. If I'm not paying someone else's bills, or have a very clear picture of that person's finances, I'm not qualified to speak on what is best for them, as much as I'd like to think I am.
I, admittedly, am new at this whole flying game. I'm (this) close to being done with my Commercial. Still have multi add-on, CFI, etc. left. A whole whopping 450 hours underneath me. I'm new. And I'm in the "Why??" stage of my infancy. But, I've seen people get bashed for taking $14,000 a year to fly a plane, I've seen people get bashed for taking $300 dollars a day to right seat in a 402 or a King Air. But, here's the deal. SOMEONE will fly for $14,000 a year or $300 a day because they know it's a means to an end. If I had to explain it, I'd say that it was an opportunity that I acted on to get me the time to qualify me to sit in front of you. If I had the drive to work a full time gig while continuing my education and ratings, I'd think that would work in my favor.
Life is a game. The objective of the game is to do whatever it takes to provide a quality of life for myself and my family. Would you agree with this? Will I go fly for $14,000 a year if I can afford to do it, and understand that it's just part of the process to get to where I want to be in the long run? Yep. I would. Why? Because if I don't, I'll still be at home playing XBox wishing I was flying airplanes, while someone with less pride and clearly defined goals is flying airplanes. Or, I'll be sitting in a 172 with a kid from Korea who has no desire to be there, but knows if he finishes this stupid flight program, he can go home, and fly an airplane to escape poverty. That's the real deal.
Pilots are going to talk smack. That's the nature of the beast. Sully gets obliterated by hating pilots. And I'm not even qualified to hold his flight case. Why would I let anyone like that have ANY influence in my life? Maybe the reason you encountered ex-military people who thought like I do was because they understood that haters hate. That's what they do, and that the haters wouldn't pay their bills, anyways.
Will you pay my bills if I sit on the sidelines waiting for the "perfect job" to come along? It might be a while. Understand, I'm not trying to be adversarial with you. I am just trying to make a point.
First, excellent post.
Second, I thought the whole point of this job was sit at home and play X box.
Point being: Haters hate. I get that. No one here is saying that you have to do X because thats the way that its always been done. Please just dont lower the bar on your way to the top. IIRC you used to be a controller, and thats great, but things dont work the same when your job isnt payed for by the government. Thats not a flame, it just is what it is. If you keep the attitude of FU, im getting mine, then good luck. If it doesnt work out, then i look forward to seeing you as you drop back down towards the bottom.
Just do all of us a favor, and dont come bitching about 14k 2 years from now when you're still working on a contract and wondering how it all went wrong.

Seriously, the union claims to have the power to stop the low pay, but to date, they have been unable to arrest the reduction in pay throughout the industry. Why? It's because the rules have changed. And people are either going to adapt to the new rules, or keep playing the game bitter and disenfranchised. Or they'll get left behind, holding out and waiting for the "ideal situation" with the "right pay". The union is required to say the right things because if they don't they get replaced, or fired, or removed. But they have absolutely no control over the market. And the market is dictating the new rules.