Bumblebee
Commodore
Unfortunately these things run deep with some people, can you imagine holding this kind of grudge so long. I've seen how it damages the grudgeholder. This is a terrible example of how the honorable act of fighting the good fight can morph into a bitter and dehumanizing attitude.
My father was a firefighter in Sacramento City during the stike of 1970. He was a goon during the strike... one of the guys who intimidate folks who cross picket lines.
His friend was a scab. He actually held his paycheck up in the window while his fellow (I won't say brother) firefighters picketed outside. Dispicible behavior.
After the strike (which made national headlines) my father repaired his relationship with his freind and started the S and G Painting company (for Scab and Goon)
Other firefighters could not believe that my dad would remain freinds with a scab, but some of those guys held painful grudges for the rest of their career, while my father was able to put the painful episode behind and move on in a better frame of mind.
I do not believe we should reward the dishonorable behavior of a scab, but to allow ourselves to be dehumanized only hurts us in the long run.
My father was a firefighter in Sacramento City during the stike of 1970. He was a goon during the strike... one of the guys who intimidate folks who cross picket lines.
His friend was a scab. He actually held his paycheck up in the window while his fellow (I won't say brother) firefighters picketed outside. Dispicible behavior.
After the strike (which made national headlines) my father repaired his relationship with his freind and started the S and G Painting company (for Scab and Goon)
Other firefighters could not believe that my dad would remain freinds with a scab, but some of those guys held painful grudges for the rest of their career, while my father was able to put the painful episode behind and move on in a better frame of mind.
I do not believe we should reward the dishonorable behavior of a scab, but to allow ourselves to be dehumanized only hurts us in the long run.