Since I started this thread, I should add my two-cents on salary from a non-commercial pilot perspective.
I had a corporate job with my last airport that was a 10 out of 10 on the adventure and excitement scale, and also on the pay scale. Last minute business class travel to Amsterdam to have dinner with tourism folks. Hosting dignitaries and local celebrities. Five hour dinners in Barcelona on the company dime.. A job everyone was fascinated by for an airport that was so popular, it was like working for a sports team. Cleared $145k with my bonus with astounding benefits and enough frequent flyer miles for my family and I to travel internationally once a year, or domestically a couple times.
But ... I eventually rose to the level in my organization where it was no longer good for me. I have a non-disparagement agreement, so I can't give specifics, only to say that the job was wearing on my health and family relations. When my then six-year old got mad one day and said "daddy always misses everything important" I was done.
So I picked up and moved my family for a job at a smaller, less prestigious airport. My salary was only slightly less, but my wife went part-time with her firm, and my benefits and extras went to crap. I have no travel budget now, and have had to pay out of pocket for a lot of the work related subscriptions I would have expensed previously. No one here gives a damn that I work for this airport, and I'm in an organization that's noticeably more "government" than my last shop (and not in a good way).
That being said, I'm home with my kids, and we have a great quality of life, even with a 30% reduction in income between us. The things that made my last job so exciting were also the things that made it stressful, if that makes any sense. I compare it to giving up blow (which I've never tried, but I like the analogy). Do I miss it? Absolutely. Was it good for me? Absolutely not.
Get familiar with the concept of point of diminishing returns. At one point at my last shop, I commented to my boss that I didn't care that salaries might be frozen because no additional money was going to substantially improve my life. That's an impossible concept to understand until you've reached the point of diminishing returns, but my boss' job paid an additional $100K over what I made, and it flat out wasn't worth it. If you lived fat dumb and happy on $110K in regional Captain salary, I'd say taking a huge QOL cut at the chance of making $250K isn't going to give you 2.5x the happiness. On the flip side, I know plenty of folks who adjust their lifestyle to their salary, and clear $500K a year and are still over-extended.