One military MD does not define a Health Network. I fully support your freedom of medical care choices, which for millions of Vets that had NONE until the 1990s, with then the creation of a Primary Care system open to all Vets.
I stated that that experience was the final straw for me, personally. There are other interactions and experiences that I had within the VA that were less than savory. This one in particular opened my eyes enough to see the danger of letting the VA system be in a position that could potentially destroy both sides of my career with one unconcerned, and erroneous, swoop. Other instances it was frustrating, yes, but in the end it was a "shrug, what can you expect when it's free, and fill out the comment (ICE) card and hope it makes a difference".
But with that said I strongly feel that there is too much ineptitude within the system and year after year hearing a new/different political talking head state that they are the new and improved VA, I only sigh and roll my eyes. There are other healthcare systems out there in the world to study, dissect apart to try to emulate, but the VA seems stubbornly stuck, refusing to learn lessons from previous failures and shortcomings, or applying changes to incorrect areas and/or issues.
While I agree with you that it is better than the healthcare options available prior, I think "We used to not provide band-aids, so here's a band-aid and be thankful we even gave you that" is not good enough of an answer.
I am not here to be confrontational, or steer this thread off course. Just simply putting my opinion and experiences out there.
So in short - I'm glad I have employer provided health coverage. By all means, if one does not have options, the VA is available to utilize. I strongly recommend thinking long and hard before letting the VA provide or continue to provide healthcare if one wishes to continue within the aviation industry back on the civilian side once they come to the end of their service.