Well, I started to go with "get a room, you two", but decided to (try) to be more original. Guess it didn't work.
lol!
I did NOT expect this thread to explode the way it has. I appreciate all of the words of encouragement from everyone. I posted here because my situation is more unique than just a woman going through a divorce. Its already bad when you work for the same company but it gets complicated when you factor in that, in the small world of aviation, many of our friends and aquaintances ALSO work for the same company or are affiliated in some way. They dont want to get involved for obvious reasons, even if they do understand the frustrations and complications that the airline lifestyle has on any life changing event. My close, "non-av" friends, though I love them to peices, cant offer me much more than "Can't you just quit and find a dispatch job in St. Louis?" They dont understand that it just doesnt work that way.
So I came here seeking advice from a more neutral perspective...people who work in aviation but dont know me or my husband. This has been a very crazy few weeks for me: Moving, paperwork, trying to explain what going on to my co workers. I deeply appreciate the kind words, jokes, and advice that has come from it. I hope that if there are other people who are in similar situations, that they can find this thread helpful.
As far as the jokes about everyone hitting me up for dates (Which I know are just in good fun)
No, I have not had an onslaught of date requests filling my inbox and I appreciate that. It really shows the class and professionalism of the members on this forum. I only wish that my "real life" male friends had the same tact. To those who have implied that I came here to use JC as a "dating tool," (You know who you are) I strongly urge you to book an appointment with your AME. You are in dire need of a psych evaluation if you honestly think I'm ready for a new relationship.
Stepping off my computer paper box now (This is aviation, soapboxes require special authorization)