I’ve been where you’ve been. I got the thanks but no thanks from my number 1 choice (UPS) when I decided to leave Kalitta. I was devastated. I sulked for a couple of days allowing myself to feel bad, then I got back on the horse to prep some more. A couple months later I had a CJO with Delta and United.
I still think about that interview with UPS and what I did wrong. Out of the three I felt as if it was my best one so again I was very surprised when I didn’t get it. You can let this failure define your aviation career or you can use it as motivation to propel it.
The best thing that happened to me was my number one choice to say no. I wanted to prove to them and myself that they made a major mistake. I firmly believe I’m at an airline that fits my personality and I’m happy here. I’m only here because of my previous interview failure.
If I had gotten hired by American when I interviewed, I would have taken it, but thought I wanted United because I thought I couldn’t live without the SF Bay Area but Delta called first.
I have seen things because of the specific people that took me under their metaphorical wings that I couldn’t have experienced anywhere else. But it wasn’t the airline, it was the people. Those people can be anywhere, I just happened to find mine at an airline that seemed the most unlikely.
I tried to let her know that she shouldn’t let this interview define her, spend the evening mourning, but the next day talking to people (not career consultants) about opportunities. I also offered to write down all she could about the experience, what she was asked, how she responded while it was still fresh and to reach out to “a certain someone” that could give first-hand feedback with reference to their interview because I really have no idea what they ask or what they’re specifically looking for. But even that has to be done quickly because the more time that passes the murkier the memory.
It’s not the end of the world. And, quite frankly, looking at the business world here, there really isn’t anywhere to run unless you’re a Private Equity Bro, I just hope the cash and prizes hold out for a few more years.