I guess I'm the real weirdo. I've only had one what you'd call "this thing may very shortly be a hole in the ground" moment (roughly on the level of
@mrivc211's experience here), but I've had more than what I imagine to be my fair share of whatever is one-step-back-from-that events, and, to the best of my recollection, I was always a bit shaken for about ten minutes, then nothing. Have a couple of beers, couple of yuks, sleep like a baby.
This probably sounds like macho chest-beating, but it's not. It's likely a maladaptive characteristic, to be honest. Like, if you (perceive yourself to have, at least) nearly died, it's almost certainly not normal to wake up fully refreshed and go back to fly the same crap the next day, but I've always seemed to just shrug it off and go back to work with nary a care.
Again, I'm not trying to spray everyone with my manly musk, or whatever, I'm just interested in the psychology and physiology of varying responses. When my Mom died, I was a basket-case for a week, and wouldn't have flown if you'd waved six figures in my face. Any sort of interpersonal dispute gets overthought for days or weeks. And as many will attest, I'm not exactly Bob Hoover on my best day. But scary airplane stuff just doesn't seem to stick, for whatever reason. It may be that deep down I can't believe the damned things get in the air in the first place, so it's all make-believe, dunno.
This would probably make a really interesting poll.