Telling a student to find another hobby

moxiepilot

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I didn't want to thread-jack, so I thought I would start a thread for this topic.

Someone posted that a CFI should never tell a student they cannot be a pilot and if they do the person shouldn't be a CFI.

I disagree.

Given enough experience teaching, I believe there comes a point where you might have worked with a student for 100 hours pre-private, and through that time may have recognized multiple reasons and behaviors that a person is inherently dangerous (to themselves or others). I believe, with prejudice and good-judgement, as well as collusion with other instructors, that there is a VERY small number of people that should be told they should not fly.

For example, in 2000 hours of teaching, I have only come across one (1) student that I recommended finding another hobby.

The background of this student was that he already racked up 350 hours with other instructors at other schools over a few years, 2 or 3 years at the most.

In those previous hours he had a major accident. The major accident scenario was that an instructor soloed him. The instructor did not endorse any other locations other than the home base of operations.

The student decided to take a plane "to the practice area" but in reality went to another airport. Because the student was not endorsed to land, he decided to do low approaches. Entry to the traffic pattern was AGAINST the flow of traffic and from the wrong side.

No radio communications were made by the pilot. When he was on final, the departure end of the runway in use, he realized a plane was taking off and performed an aborted landing, stall & spun into the ground.

The resulting crash broke his legs and caused slight brain damage (he once drooled on my desk :P - physically showing a diminished motor capability.) But, more importantly, the brain damage caused seriously abnormal reactions to stress. The post crash fire consumed the aircraft.

After working with this student for about 75 hours, and other instructors at my FBO working with him for about 25-40 hours, I learned about the accident.

His trauma which affects him has never been reported on his medical. His former flight instructor was contacted by me after learning of the incident to garner additional information. I learned the student struggled with the same skills I was struggling to teach him.

Landings were not the only obstacle. Name anything in the PTS and the student could not preform it, pilotage, maneuvers. Wait. I stand corrected. The student could take off.

Long story short is that after compiling all the information to come to an informed position I discussed the options with other instructors.

At 400 hours I recommended another hobby to the student, sailing. He likes boats.

Needless to say, I don't feel an ounce of regret because of having seen how dangerous this student could potentially be to the public and himself. It probably also saved him thousands of more dollars.

As a final thought, take from the Aviation Instructors Handbook, chapter 2 -

Flight Instructor Actions Regarding Seriously Abnormal Students:

"A Flight Instructor who believes a student may be suffering from a serious psychological abnormality ha a responsibility to refrain from certifying that student."

The chapter concludes with a few other points in dealing with the situation; but, my whole point is that instructors do have an obligation to tell students they should not train, however rare the occurrence may be.
 
Did he agree with what you said?

I've had the doctor Jeckyll and Mr. Hyde type students but this doesn't sound like that.
 
I explained my position, the behaviors I saw, his performance, his past behaviors, and current reactinos to flying.

He took it in stride (I think because he already knew, just didn't want to accept the reality.)

I had forgot to add that no instructor ever soloed him after his accident, over 250 hours prior to my obtaining him as a student.

As far as I know there was no bad blood between us, and received the nod from his wife and son (who is a pilot) about the decision later that week.
 
Given enough experience teaching, I believe there comes a point where you might have worked with a student for 100 hours pre-private, and through that time may have recognized multiple reasons and behaviors that a person is inherently dangerous (to themselves or others). I believe, with prejudice and good-judgement, as well as collusion with other instructors, that there is a VERY small number of people that should be told they should not fly.

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I must agree, the CFI not only should stand up and point out these students but I believe it is their duty to do it. These reasons could be for safety both your students and his family or friends flying with him/her. Some people just will never get it and you should stop wasting their money to boost our paychecks since CFI pay blows.
 
I explained my position, the behaviors I saw, his performance, his past behaviors, and current reactinos to flying.

He took it in stride (I think because he already knew, just didn't want to accept the reality.)

I had forgot to add that no instructor ever soloed him after his accident, over 250 hours prior to my obtaining him as a student.

As far as I know there was no bad blood between us, and received the nod from his wife and son (who is a pilot) about the decision later that week.

Thats why its probably a good idea to know about your student's past beforehand. This way if you see them as a liability, you can cover your ass and say thanks, but no thanks.
 
...he once drooled on my desk :P - physically showing a diminished motor capability.) But, more importantly, the brain damage caused seriously abnormal reactions to stress.

That would be the kicker for me! Wow.

I had a student who had quite a motion sickness problem. Sometimes previous students were able to work though it after a couple lessons, but not this one. We tried everything; smooth air and shorter flights, ginger, the wristbands... you name it, we tried it. I offered for her to try other instructors to see if they could do something I couldn't, but she refused...she wanted to fly with me. At a certain point I had to draw the line; she was wasting her time and money with no success.

It's rare but there are some who are better off. :o
 
I have a student right now who some might say should get another hobby.

He's an older man, spends every night at a bar, but no extreme mental problems or brain damage. Actually he's a nice guy. He wants a Private certificate, really just as a hobby and was initially very gung-ho about flying every day.

The problem is that he's crap.

He tends to be very fearful, more so than any other student I've encountered in my 1000+ hours of dual given, and this makes it very hard for him to learn anything. He has a real tendency to get slow on final, and initially had a total inability to comprehend even the basics. He's flown both with myself and our chief pilot on a couple of occasions to check his lack of progress. I'm not into milking hours. He says he got very little from flying with the boss, and want's to only fly with me. About the 20 hour mark, with the student flying like he had about two, I asked the Chief about having 'the talk'. He told me, as long as he has the money and want's to fly, then keep going. So I did.

We're at about 40 hours now, and we're actually making progress. It's slow, but each flight get's him that much closer towards being comfortable in the airplane. I'm not really sure that he's enjoying it, and he's trailed off to a couple of times a week, which suits me, but he may get there one day.

I think the best thing s simply to be honest. Tell the student that progress has been slow, but you're available as long as they want to keep going. Or start drooling :p.
 
That was me in the other thread.
I understand your point of view and i agree if the circumstances permit it.
In the other thread, the man was devoted towards correcting his abilities and he is at low enough hours that the primacy can be corrected with proper motivation and instruction.

If the student, on the other hand, is incapable of safely operating the aircraft and is mentally or physically challenged in the necessary areas or anger is displayed in the cockpit, he/she should be asked to possibly take another hobby. Each one of these should be taken seriously and noted each time. This will only help prove your case the person is unsafe to operate.

Guys, i dont disagree with anything you've said. Some times people need to be turned another direction. If I get a student who is incapable of performing the necessary maneuvers or actions while flying an aircraft, we should keep them from operating in the air. I keep safety at a high level because i myself have made mistakes yet have learned from them to make myself become a better pilot. SAFETY, is my concern with all student pilots and should be kept at a high priority level.
 
I have had "the talk" with a student or two. Some people just aren't meant to be pilots. They either lack the physical, mental or mechanical skills to do it.
 
I'm trying to say this in the nicest way possible. I've noticed that some people that come from foreign countries like India, just like to party. They come from rich families and they don't have good enough grades to do other things or their parents makes them become pilots. Sometimes, I was WTF dude, why are you even flying if you don't want to be a pilot?
 
I picked up a student from another instructor who right off the bat, 1st time I meat the guy was all about "I just want to renew my solo endorsement." He didn't want anything but that, and wanted it on the 1st flight together with me. After I told him striaght forwardly "No" and showed him the requirements, he was peaty much p.o.'ed. But he still wanted to fly. After the flight he demanded that I re-endorse him. At that point, I told him to "Go kick rocks you mother effer, and find yourself another CFI."

There is much more to what this student thinks he is "entitled to" but I don't want to sit here and type it all out. But in this case, I feel I was justified to tell him what I did. He became hostile before the flight, and was the same way after the flight, but worse. My point is, don't let a student influence their training too much, because ultimately, the CFI is the one responsible for the saftey of the student.
 
So question for the more experienced CFIs...
Would you make this call differently for someone who wants an aviation CAREER vs. an aviation HOBBY?
 
Of course you should tell him.

I had a student in the helicopter FRS. He came to us with 11 "downs" on his record. Now the most "downs" you're allowed in the Training Command for the average pilots is 3.

However, every time this kid got a down, he'd write to his Congressman and allege racial discrimination.

I took him out one day for a Basic Instrument hop. After we spent 45 minutes of a two hour hop trying to get him to fly straight and level, I gave up. When we got back to the squadron, I sat him down.

Me: "Listen. The bottom line here is you can't fly. I know there's a lot of pride involved in wearing those Wings of Gold, but you've got to be realistic. Is it worth your life? You earned your wings and can wear them for the rest of your career. But they aren't worth killing yourself for."

He ended up washing out and going to Surface Warfare Officer school. Later, I ran into him out in the fleet. He was excelling as a ship driver and was on the fast track to becoming a very senior officer in the Navy.

When one door closes, another opens I guess.
 
Of course you should tell him.

I had a student in the helicopter FRS. He came to us with 11 "downs" on his record. Now the most "downs" you're allowed in the Training Command for the average pilots is 3.

However, every time this kid got a down, he'd write to his Congressman and allege racial discrimination.

I took him out one day for a Basic Instrument hop. After we spent 45 minutes of a two hour hop trying to get him to fly straight and level, I gave up. When we got back to the squadron, I sat him down.

Me: "Listen. The bottom line here is you can't fly. I know there's a lot of pride involved in wearing those Wings of Gold, but you've got to be realistic. Is it worth your life? You earned your wings and can wear them for the rest of your career. But they aren't worth killing yourself for."

He ended up washing out and going to Surface Warfare Officer school. Later, I ran into him out in the fleet. He was excelling as a ship driver and was on the fast track to becoming a very senior officer in the Navy.

When one door closes, another opens I guess.

Wasn't it similar situation with the firest female F-14 pilot, Hultgren? Difference being, she was pressed through?
 
So question for the more experienced CFIs...
Would you make this call differently for someone who wants an aviation CAREER vs. an aviation HOBBY?

Its really hard when your instructing at a school like ATP for example... we had one student like the one described here, and his instructor had to have a little heart to heart with him. The hard part was that the guy refused to take his instructors advice and got management involved. At ATP, they basically didnt care if someone was ready for their checkride or not. They told his instructor to just "sign him off" and let the DPE fail him... this was one of the few times I didnt agree with ATP management. By doing this, they basically discredited the CFI. Luckily it wasnt me, I would never endorse someone that wasn't ready for a checkride.
 
So question for the more experienced CFIs...
Would you make this call differently for someone who wants an aviation CAREER vs. an aviation HOBBY?

Yes.

I'm working with a gentleman right now who wants to get a private and instrument license, then fly for personal use. I solo'd him at about 60 or 70 hours and I think he'll take his private checkride at about 120 or 130. He has great judgment, excellent academic skills, and is an acceptable stick, but it takes him about 3 times longer than most people to learn new skills.

Money and time mean virtually nothing to him. All he wants is to do it right and become a safe pilot.

For his goals, I'm happy to work with him for as long as it takes to get things done. He's aware that it takes him longer to learn things and is ok with that.

Now, if he were wanting a career, I would have talked to him by this point and explained that while I believe he's capable of being a safe pilot, it's become apparent that he learns at a noticeably slower pace than average, and most employers are going to expect their pilots to keep up with an "average" pace during company training. That might mean he'd wash out at some companies. Then let him decide if he wants to continue.


Of course, this all pre-supposes that the pilot will eventually become a safe, competent pilot, even if it takes longer than average. If I thought there were a mental condition that prevented a safe level of airmanship from ever being attained, I'd tell the person my thoughts no matter what their end goals are.
 
Of course you should tell him.

I had a student in the helicopter FRS. He came to us with 11 "downs" on his record. Now the most "downs" you're allowed in the Training Command for the average pilots is 3.

Please excuse my thread-hijacking and lack of knowledge in this area, but what's a "down"?
 
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