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Loosing weight comes from a caloric deficit, nothing more, nothing less. The game is how you achieve that caloric deficit. I firmly believe the human body was not designed to sit in a cubicle or cockpit for 8+ hours a day. Therefore we must find someway to overcome our lack of activity. Some will say do aerobic activity, that is fine and all BUT aerobic activity is only good while you are doing it. This kind of activity really does nothing to make your body become more metabolic while you are inactive. I bet you can see where I am going with this
If you want to loose weight (not so much the number on the scale but loose the fat) you must MUST lift heavy weights, eat lots of protein and most of all SLEEP.
There are 6 basic workouts that must be done:
1. Squat (if anyone says it is bad for your back, hard on your knees, don't go below parallel, I will slap you with a 7 foot steel bar

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2. Deadlift (again, NOT BAD FOR YOUR BACK, it is actually very good for your back)
3. Bent over rows (many variations of this, I prefer back almost parallel with the floor)
4. Overhead standing press (seated presses with dumbells are for weenies :drool

5. Benchpress (there is no such thing is an upper chest or lower chest, just do flat benchpress and leave all the fancy angles to the engineers)
6. Pullups, weighted is better.
A sample MWF routine would be like so
Monday
Squats, Deadlift, Rows, Pullups
Wednesday
Benchpress, OH Press, Squats
Friday
Squats, Rows, Pullups
Yup, squat every workout, it is that good of a workout.
Notice there is no direct arm work in there, please don't be that guy that does curls for the girls. No direct ab work either, your squats and deadlifts , if done properly, will obliterate your abs.
Try this for six months then you can start adding assistance work in to help move along, like curls and tricep work, shoulder raises and such.
Your weight should be in the range that keeps your reps to 5 or 6 and your sets to 3 or 4. Every week the weight should increase 5-10 pounds per lift OR increase your sets by one per lift then drop back down to your normal set range the next week and add the 5 or 10 pounds.
Couple of man rules for the gym.
1. no gloves
2. no wrist wraps (you want big arms, forearms are part of your arm, SUCK IT UP NANCY!)
3. If your shins are not bleeding after your deadlifts you are doing them wrong.