"Pilots have girlfriends in every city they go to."

ZapBrannigan said:
Got some good advice from a Captain very early on in this profession. He said, "you know what they say about guys who date flight attendants?

They're just to lazy to (euphemism for being master of your own domain)"
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idk, being master of your own domain is a lot easier than messing around with an FA.
 
ChasenSFO said:
. Still, I think people who haven't had multiple partners at once underestimate how time consuming and difficult it is, really it's like being glued to your phone for a part time job. It's honestly very stressful. Again, it's possible, but to make it work you would need to date some very gutter casual hookup types who aren't much for the talking and that most of us wouldn't want anyway, which takes away most of the appeal.
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Or they just know about each other and it's all cool with everyone involved. Phone thing is a lot easier to handle when they can just pass it back and forth to each other. Speakerphone is even better.....
 
kellwolf said:
Or they just know about each other and it's all cool with everyone involved. Phone thing is a lot easier to handle when they can just pass it back and forth to each other. Speakerphone is even better.....
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Ha. "All cool with everyone involved". Great in theory. They might tell you it's all cool, they might get along on the surface, but if you're casually dating multiple women who know each other, it can be the best or worst thing ever. I was dating 2 sisters once who were "cool" with it but that didn't stop the abrupt "JANICE ISN'T PICKING UP HER PHONE ARE YOU WITH HER? I HEAR HER VOICE! I'M COMING OVER" phone calls which would be followed by a calm "Oh I just wanted to hang out with you guys too, I don't care what you do with her" conversation. Uh huh. They both did the same thing, even left dates with other guys a few times to swoop in for the Charlie Bravo. Women. It's always a trap.
 
ChasenSFO said:
Ha. "All cool with everyone involved". Great in theory. They might tell you it's all cool, they might get along on the surface, but if you're casually dating multiple women who know each other, it can be the best or worst thing ever. I was dating 2 sisters once who were "cool" with it but that didn't stop the abrupt "JANICE ISN'T PICKING UP HER PHONE ARE YOU WITH HER? I HEAR HER VOICE! I'M COMING OVER" phone calls which would be followed by a calm "Oh I just wanted to hang out with you guys too, I don't care what you do with her" conversation. Uh huh. They both did the same thing, even left dates with other guys a few times to swoop in for the Charlie Bravo. Women. It's always a trap.
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Either you made that up or your have some serious game. Was this in middle school or something?
 
Vector said:
Either you made that up or your have some serious game. Was this in middle school or something?
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LOL, you think that sounds appealing? You can have it. If I had game, I'd have one loyal beautiful girl to spend my life with. What I have is a lot of great stories with nothing to show for them but grey hairs at 24(seriously) and the burden of having been cheated on by just about every woman I've ever loved. That crazy life only looks good on TV breh, but it's who I am I guess.
 
ChasenSFO said:
LOL, you think that sounds appealing? You can have it. If I had game, I'd have one loyal beautiful girl to spend my life with. What I have is a lot of great stories with nothing to show for them but grey hairs at 24(seriously) and the burden of having been cheated on by just about every woman I've ever loved. That crazy life only looks good on TV breh, but it's who I am I guess.
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We seem to have a lot of similar dating/relationship stories...
 
ChasenSFO said:
LOL, you think that sounds appealing? You can have it. If I had game, I'd have one loyal beautiful girl to spend my life with. What I have is a lot of great stories with nothing to show for them but grey hairs at 24(seriously) and the burden of having been cheated on by just about every woman I've ever loved. That crazy life only looks good on TV breh, but it's who I am I guess.
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Not. Sure. If. Uh. What?

Erm... does dating two SISTERS at the same time not seem weird to you? I'll wager that women that would be cool with that... atypical dating situation... are not going to be the type with a more common set of morals that would see anything wrong with cheating on a guy too. Maybe you need to raise your standards or evaluate your own behavior patterns and try less porny relationships?

Might lead to a better class of woman that would be less likely to cheat?

I'm not sure if I want to laugh about this, high five you for all the wrong reasons that contradict the point of what I already wrote, just say DAYUMMM, or pull you aside if we meet one day and say WTF young buck?
 
ChasenSFO said:
LOL, you think that sounds appealing? You can have it. If I had game, I'd have one loyal beautiful girl to spend my life with. What I have is a lot of great stories with nothing to show for them but grey hairs at 24(seriously) and the burden of having been cheated on by just about every woman I've ever loved. That crazy life only looks good on TV breh, but it's who I am I guess.
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You are only 24 and already talking about some woman to spend your life with. What is wrong with you young people these days!! :)
Science tells us that the male brain is not fully developed until about 25. But that is beside the point, you should really explore before trying to settle for the one. Marriage success statistics support couples that marry older anyway.

Personally, I can't fathom the thought that it is hard to find a girlfriend. Have you been on Match.com, Eharmony or Tinder? There are more women out there than men, so it is really non-issue. What are you doing wrong?
 
Vector said:
As in, you went in on the orgy?! :)
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Beefy McGee said:
Maybe you need to raise your standards or evaluate your own behavior patterns and try less porny relationships?
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I've been telling this guy that for a while :P. Can't say I listened when I was warned about the succubus that I wasted most of my early 20s with. We all think with the wrong head sometimes.
 
ChasenSFO said:
LOL, you think that sounds appealing? You can have it. If I had game, I'd have one loyal beautiful girl to spend my life with. What I have is a lot of great stories with nothing to show for them but grey hairs at 24(seriously) and the burden of having been cheated on by just about every woman I've ever loved. That crazy life only looks good on TV breh, but it's who I am I guess.
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Yup. It's not hard to get laid. The real challenge is finding one who'll stick around. Still working on that one myself.
 
Beefy McGee said:
I'm not sure if I want to laugh about this, high five you for all the wrong reasons that contradict the point of what I already wrote, just say DAYUMMM, or pull you aside if we meet one day and say WTF young buck?
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Sounds like my internal delima. Anyway, there were no commitments in that thing they just got jealous for obvious reasons. It was just an example to the theory "just tell them all about eachother". But I guess my life is pretty porny at times. Just part of being in your 20s I guess.
 
This last page has made me realize I either had no game, didnt try hard enough, or I found one downside to growing up in small town Alaska.
 
ASpilot2be said:
This last page has made me realize I either had no game, didnt try hard enough, or I found one downside to growing up in small town Alaska.
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It took me well into my 20s to realize there's no such thing as "Game." It's all just "Be comfortable in your own skin." :)

Oh, and second most important thing: Show intent. I thought I was being a gentleman by beating around the bush when it came to telling women I was interested in them. Doesn't get you anywhere.
 
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