Started flying in 1987 with the intent of being an airline pilot at some point. While working on my PPL, my instructor and I took a tour of MYF tower. One of the controllers happened to mention that they were giving the ATC test down at the courthouse the follow week. Took the test, waited for seemingly forever, then enjoyed 25 years of ATC before retiring in 2016. Then I caught the wave of pilot hiring 1st at SKW for a year then the past 3 years flying CE750's for XOJET.
The ATC world will give you a level of stability that you will not find on the flying side. Good pay, great benefits, and a PENSION. The work is not easy, but it was fun, and the people were/are fantastic. The view from 47,000 feet however is tough to beat, as is the variety of destinations and working conditions found flying part 135 ops.
Our kids are adults now, and I can't imagine raising a family on a pilot's schedule, 121,135, whatever. I know tons of folks have done it and had success. But even with the strange schedules that ATC works, it was extremely rare to miss a game, concert, campout, etc.
Enough ramblin' happy to pass along any other thoughts or answer questions about the two sides of the radio. Good luck with your decision, and drop me a message or whatever anytime.
Nate