That would be an extremely hard thing to live with, especially knowing the little girl died now. It is hard for any of us to say what we would have done but I am in the "swim for it" party. It will be interesting to see what kind of negligence was involved (shotty MX or pencil whipped inspections). I agree with
@I_Money on this one. Flying a single engine airplane is an unnecessary risk that we take for fun or hobby most of the time. Pilots should put safety of people on the ground first before their own.