Bob Ridpath
Pit Bull love
I get that it's tough to walk away from a life-long passion. A hard upper age limit would help know when it's time to go, though, and remove some of the personal angst, I think. 70 or perhaps 72 - maybe 75 (if objective data supports that).Both.
What's worse is the absolute inability to recognize the decrease in cognitive capability.
I'm already thinking of when it will be the right time to surrender my privilege to drive a car at just a few months shy of 73. It just doesn't seem right to me that family or friends should be responsible for sneaking the keys out of my apartment some night after dinner
In the meantime, I keep that line of communication open to local family and friends and seek their input on changes they note. Certainly it isn't flying but I've been doing it for roughly 57 years and it's a hard thing to actively consider; still I believe it's a good choice, at least for me.
Cognitive decline is a real thing as the decades pass, along with slower reaction times.
YMMV, but most (all?) of us will wrestle with that point in our lives.