a) stafford loans barely cover my in-state tuition. period. the government does not offer me subsidized loans either.
mistake #1, why are you not a ND resident by now?
b) i would gladly pay my bills, IF THE UNIVERSITY WOULD ALERT ME TO THESE DEBTS WHEN THEY ARE INCURRED.
Are you kidding? You don't know that tuition, fees, etc are all charged at the beginning of the semester? Step away from any airplane in your future, PLEASE!
the university today informed me "this charge was incurred in january. you were notified by email, as we do not send paper billing statements anymore."
So you didn't get a bill from known costs (tuition) and what, you thought this year was free? If a credit card bill doesn't show up do you just let it ride and hope for the best?
okay well maybe im out on a limb here, but i think youd be with me when i say that if
i am being asked to pay thousands of dollars, i expect to see it in writing in a paper bill. i had no previous idea that they had done away with paper billing. i was told "we notified you by email that we would no longer have paper billing".... okay, if i had no previous reason to look at my junk university email account, how would i otherwise find out this information?????
As stated above, a big bill you know is coming doesn't show up and you don't put forth any effort to find out why. The campus isn't that big and there is this new device called a TELEPHONE!
thats my issue, the real lack of communication with the university, not the dollar value of the charge.
other reasons i am considering moving include but are not limited to
-climate. cold is one thing, life-threatening cold and a majority of weather that is unsuitable for flying is something else.
Yup and tornados are a walk in the park, after all, all you have to do is find some leather straps and a well pipe and you can survive an F5
-cost of living/housing/wages. my research on the internet indicates that oklahoma city is roughly 10% cheaper to live in than grand forks north dakota. i find the wages to costs here in grand forks to be non-conducive to a working student trying to pay their own way.
Dorms are cheap, you chose not to live there, UND didn't force you out. Can't pay the bills, don't have the party.
-lifestyle/setting. i am not a small town person. OKC is a city of 600,000. thats much more to my liking and will greatly enhance my overall quality of life. (subjective, but valid in my opinion)
You knew GFK was small town ND coming here, you are just now coming to the conclusion that you don't like small towns. Forgive me, but your situational awareness and decision making skills are severly lacking.