Don't take the fact that it's a "recommendation" too seriously; the FAA could use AIM "recommendations" in enforcement actions to demonstrate a violation of 14 CFR 91.13, Careless or Reckless operation of an aircraft. And they have.
Safety is about adhering to a standard, regardless of whether it's optimal (for you) or not. If I'm expecting you to enter the pattern on a 45 and instead, you're doing some more efficient (for you) but unexpected, you're compromising the safety of both of us.
Pilots that are aware of proper procedures and follow them, no matter how inconvenient, impress me with their self-discipline, professionalism, and attention to detail. Those who disdain proper procedures, or are ignorant of them, suggest to me that they apply the same carelessness to all aspects of their flying.
As often happens in your rush to judgment, you have entirely missed the point of the thread.
There is no "standard" for behavior in a traffic pattern. There are few "proper procedures" to "disdain," as you insultingly put it. People do power-off 180s; spot landings; wide patterns; narrow patterns; straight-ins; circles-to-land; stop-and-goes; low passes a few feet of the runway; engine failure practice in twins; glider landings without transponders or radio calls; the list of things that don't fit your world of "proper procedures" is copious and, to someone who understands only "adhering to a standard," they must be truly terrifying.
So, if you're expecting "me" or anyone else to enter the pattern on the 45, and you're not looking elsewhere because of that, then I say you're asking for a midair. The traffic pattern is the very least predictable, and therefore the most dangerous, place to fly. You must look everywhere, all the time, and be prepared for anything. It's like a traffic circle in car-land: there are a few rules; some people obey them; and most of the time, it all works out.
Just to recapitulate the OP: the FAA examiner suggested that the 45-degree entree was "unexpected and dangerous." I agree. Perhaps you're suggesting he's not up to speed on "adhering to a standard," and I guess that's possible; but he probably knows a lot more about standards than you do.
The pattern entry that I recommended, and that many other obviously experienced pilots have supported in this forum, is a well known and often used procedure, not only here, but also in Canada, where it is officially sanctioned.
Perhaps you are saying you don't need to be looking out for those pilots at American aerodromes, because after all, they're Canadians and they "disdain our procedures." Hmmm. If you're only looking for people on the 45, you're going to need all the luck you can get.
Oh, and iet me know how it works for you the next few times you do a 45 entry to downwind at night in low visibility in a mountainous, turbulent area, because that's what your precious AIM recommends.
Say, when was the last time you informed New York Tracon that your true airspeed had changed by 10 knots? Let me know how that one works out for you, too.