Hacker15e
Who am I? Where are my pants?
I remember about ten years ago when Kelly Flinn - the first female B-52 pilot - was discharged after adultery and she got a General Discharge. I was trying to find out if she ever made it with the airlines or not, as that might be an indicator of whether you could get into the airlines or not.
Flinn resigned her Commission and that allowed her to have a General Discharge.
She was hired at ASA relatively soon after she got out of the USAF and flew there for some time (I think I saw her on a flight I took out of Atlanta on an Embraer back about '99, but I'm not 100% certain). The last I heard as of a couple years ago she was married with a new name and flying at UPS.
With respect to the original poster...I don't know how you got into a situation where you have to choose between finishing your college degree on some timeline and being discharged from your reserve unit in OTH conditions. Regardless, seems to me that there has got to be another angle to this whole thing. You identified the problem yourself -- "I'm not willing to come back as a 27 year old...."
IMHO you're not making the correct decision if you are choosing to have a questionable military discharge rather than to delay completing your degree. You can attempt to rationalize it all you want, but in the big picture you are simply setting yourself up for problems later in life. VERY short-sighted decisionmaking here.
One will require you to explain yourself for the rest of your employment career. The other one wil cost you...I don't know what it will cost you, but it won't be as much as having an other-than-honorable discharge.
I know you asked for "piece of mind" posts to be in PM, but this just needs to be said in public. Sorry.