Mean kids, mean to your kid...

Murdoughnut said:
Oooh, Ooooh!!! That was my idea ... sorta. I win!
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Ding Ding Ding…. What do we have for hhiiiimmm Jooohnny!!

Well, BOB! We have a nice set of bolts, and fake flowers…… But that’s not all BOB! He’ll enjoy relaxing in his back sitting on this 2007 WHITE BUCKET!!! BOB, Send him down!!
 
eagledriver101 said:
Secondly, as far is having my child play somewhere that would be inaccessible to her would be locking my kids in the back yard. And to me, that’s unfair to my child and his friends who enjoy riding their bikes and scooters, we have an elementary that is right a crossed the street that runs parallel to our house. The school has a public playground for kids, and my son loves to go play on it with his friends. She should be the one locked in the backyard.
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First: I'm glad you found a resolution. Best of luck.

Second: My suggestion to have your child play somewhere inaccessible to the girl was not meant to be interpreted to "lock your child" in the back yard - rather to lock the little tyrant out of yours.

Is it "fair?" Probably not. But obviously you speaking to her AND her parents doesn't seem to be making too big of an impression either.

Maybe the letter from your attorney friend will help. Again....glad you found a resolution.
 
Sadly, what this kid needs is a dose of her own medicine. She needs someone to treat her the way she treats others. In this "politically correct" day age though, it can't happen. If you were to chew her out, slap her hand and walk her home pulling her by the ear, you'd get in trouble :(

I think you've done the right thing, and the only thing you can do for now. That 8 year old is in for a rough life if she thinks she can get away with treating people like that. Take heart that if she keeps this up, she'll get the crap beat out of her someday!
 
eagledriver101 said:
So, there is a little Girl that’s about 8 years old, she lives down the street from me, And sheeeee’s a SNOT!! She is so mean to my 4 year old, he'll just be outside hanging out with his friends doing what 4 yr old's do. Anyway, she’ll come by and steal his toy’s, she took his Spiderman Razor Scooter and broke it, she'll call him names and threaten to have bigger kids beat him up, she’s basically the neighbor-hood bully.
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First of all I would NEVER allow an 8 yr old to play with my 4 yr old. Second if anybody threatened my child with violence, I mean EVER, I don't care how old or young, I would put the Fear of God in them so fast it would make your head spin. There is only one person in this world that your child is counting on to protect him and that is YOU. Allowing this to continue one minute longer is child abuse.
 
TheWife said:
Maybe I'm just the oddball here, but I LIKE my kids being locked in a backyard. You can't be too careful.
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Its true cant be too careful, I guess it depends on where you live in some cases, as far as us, we’re surrounded by Mormons, and live in a gated community. And since its establishment in 2001, there has not been child who has gone missing. So I feel safe letting him out to play. And he knows his boundaries. Plus I can see the school yard he plays in from my front room. And, I have a GPS locater bolted to the back of his head…


(Whats up with the font zise??)
 
ok buy a shot gun. when the kid comes around start rackin off shots with a bottle of some cheap bews in your hand. hopefully the parents and the neighbors will understand that you mean business.
 
Old Pete said:
First of all I would NEVER allow an 8 yr old to play with my 4 yr old. Second if anybody threatened my child with violence, I mean EVER, I don't care how old or young, I would put the Fear of God in them so fast it would make your head spin. There is only one person in this world that your child is counting on to protect him and that is YOU. Allowing this to continue one minute longer is child abuse.
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Well after today she is pretty damn scared to come around, I have done every thing ethical and reasonable as possible. Nor more messing around, I already have a letter being sent to her from the ASG office, next step is getting the cops out here and filing a complaint against her parents.
 
amorris311 said:
ok buy a shot gun. when the kid comes around start rackin off shots with a bottle of some cheap bews in your hand. hopefully the parents and the neighbors will understand that you mean business.
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You know what!! First off all LOL ROTFLMAO

Second, you’re a freaking Jedi!!
 
amorris311 said:
ok buy a shot gun. when the kid comes around start rackin off shots with a bottle of some cheap bews in your hand. hopefully the parents and the neighbors will understand that you mean business.
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I like the way you think Amorris....but you knew that. :D
 
eagledriver101 said:
Its true cant be too careful, I guess it depends on where you live in some cases, as far as us, we’re surrounded by Mormons, and live in a gated community. And since its establishment in 2001, there has not been child who has gone missing. So I feel safe letting him out to play. And he knows his boundaries. Plus I can see the school yard he plays in from my front room. And, I have a GPS locater bolted to the back of his head…


(Whats up with the font zise??)
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Dude, I live in Happy Valley, land of the Mormons and there is no way in hell my kids will ever be outside playing alone. There wasn't any previous history of problems when Elizabeth Smart was kidnapped in her safe neighborhood, from her bed, in her home, with her parents there. My son is 5, and I don't let him out of my sight. And yeah, the tiny font is making me feel old and like I need to get some glasses lol.
 
eagledriver101 said:
Well after today she is pretty damn scared to come around, I have done every thing ethical and reasonable as possible. Nor more messing around, I already have a letter being sent to her from the ASG office, next step is getting the cops out here and filing a complaint against her parents.
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Excellent, good job.
 
amorris311 said:
matt he is 4!
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While I see your point. See mine also, if you don't start young then the child (any child) will/may grow up to be weak have a victim mentality, codependancy and a favorite for playground bullies.

Now, I'm not saying slap your kid everyday to make him mean so he hates everyone and is the ultimate playground fighting machine.

Just teach him or her not to value friends over self and to assert individuality, be able to think for ones self and when to say no, and when to fight back.
 
TheWife said:
Dude, I live in Happy Valley, land of the Mormons and there is no way in hell my kids will ever be outside playing alone. There wasn't any previous history of problems when Elizabeth Smart was kidnapped in her safe neighborhood, from her bed, in her home, with her parents there. My son is 5, and I don't let him out of my sight. And yeah, the tiny font is making me feel old and like I need to get some glasses lol.
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OMG you live in Provo right?? I just realized you’re in Utah! LOL funny, I’m up in South Jordan, at about 118 South and Bangerter HWY

You should tell your husban that we should go flying sometime, it would be fun.
 
Maximillian_Jenius said:
While I see your point. See mine also, if you don't start young then the child (any child) will/may grow up to be weak have a victim mentality, codependancy and a favorite for playground bullies.

Now, I'm not saying slap your kid everyday to make him mean so he hates everyone and is the ultimate playground fighting machine.

Just teach him or her not to value friends over self and to assert individuality, be able to think for ones self and when to say no, and when to fight back.
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I see what you're saying... he’s a big 4 yr old, and I have no doubt when pushed he would bam bam someone. But I have always been taught to do that as a last resort, and try diplomacy fist.
 
like i said sometimes words just dont get the point across. actions speak louder then words. just make sure if you are going to hit someone you get that money shot the first time. im kidding. dont fight unless you are hit first.
 
eagledriver101 said:
I see what you're saying... he’s a big 4 yr old, and I have no doubt when pushed he would bam bam someone. But I have always been taught to do that as a last resort, and try diplomacy fist.
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Cool, because 4 is never too young. After all this pint size 8 yr. old bully had to learn somewhere from someone, most notably her parents through action of inaction. That survival of the fittist aka bullying was okay.

So the opposite, teaching kids not to be bully fodder is also a valuable learned trait that has no real age limitus either.
 
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