Can I ask your age?
It’s easy to say all this stuff. But call a spade a spade, Emu and Derg don’t have kids. The whole ball game chnaged in this career if you don’t have rug rats. You have a lot more options and risk you can take cause at worse you’re only gonna negatively affect yourself and spouse (if you’re married). Clarkgriswold and myself were lucky to be hired at our carriers in our 20s. Again, it’s much easier to make these leaps when you are young and with either no kids or just babies at the moment.
Now put yourself in the shoes of a 40-50 yr old RJ CA (of which there are thousands, thanks to the lost decade). Now they’re making $120-150k+ with great schedules, time off as they want, kids established in schools and spouses with jobs that are established. At this stage, they are not in a position to go to 1st yr pay and commute to a base far away and start at the bottom of a list again. So I totally get that. But just know that regional airlines aren’t guaranteed in any way. It’s a gamble.
Why did I leave the east coast for a west coast carrier? Simple. It was an escape from the regional but more importantly, there were no kids at that point. No kids made the decision a LOT easier. If there were already kids, I don’t think I would have even applied to VX. Just jetblue, Spirit, Frontier.
But on that same token of “you just can’t tell” as life turned out I had kids and now we are moving to the west coast anyway. Mainly so because it’s hard to walk away from 8th yr A320 CA pay.
The point: At any given moment in life we can only make the decisions we can based on our current situation and the cards we have dealt today. The future is unpredictable so do what you think is best today. Now that I have kids, entering exactly mid 30s, I totally understand RJ lifers and hold nothing against them.