I started working when I was 16. Made $8/hr. Worked 15-20 hours a week during the school year and 40 hours a week during the summers. Saved almost all of it. That was enough to pay for my private and part of my instrument.
Went to college. Parents paid a little over 1/2 my tuition (the rest was covered by scholarships). I am covering the cost of room and board by being an RA (great gig). Work full time in the summers in line service making $12/hr. I also started working 12 hours a week as an engineering tutor during the school year ($9/hr). Again, saved almost all of it. That covered the rest of my instrument and enough to build time up through my commercial single.
Now I plan on working over the summer at an engineering internship, and that should be enough to pay for my commercial multi and my CFI/II/MEI. I will graduate with zero debt and some money in my pocket.
Here are the key's:
Work hard and SAVE as much as you can. If a better job comes up, take it. The key is to always be looking for better opportunities. Be conscious about how and where you spend your money.
Have all the money saved up BEFORE you start working on your license, then fly often (2-3 times a week, or more). I know so many people who have 10,15,20 hours or so of flight training, made it up to or around solo, and just ran out of money. Guess what...none of them have ever taken up flying again. If you work for a week, make $200, and take one flight training lesson a week, it will take forever to get your private. Plus it will be so much more expensive because you will need to relearn things every week.
I would work hard, save your money, then when you have $8,000 (or whatever you responsibly budget for your private), start taking lessons. If you run out of money before you finish, it will be VERY COSTLY (time and money). Make sure you have enough money saved up before you start. If you need help making an accurate budget, let us on JC and we will help you.
Keep your flight training costs low. Two keys here. Shop around and NEGOTIATE!! Go to
www.airnav.com , then type in your local airport, scroll down to airport businesses, and research EVERY flight school or FBO on the field. Check nearby airports too. By shopping around, you can save THOUSANDS of dollars on flight training. Look at aircraft cost, look at instructor cost, look at monthly dues, look at aircraft availability.
As for negotiating, this is something that gets brushed by often. At every flight school/club I have flown at (3 for airplanes, 1 for gliders), I have somehow negotiated lower costs (block rates for airplanes or instructors, cheaper/no monthly dues). They want your business. $35,000 is a LOT of money for all your licenses and ratings. Ask about block rates. Ask to talk to the owner about maybe lowering the monthly dues. You can negotiate. Let me know if you would like so tips on how to do this.
Work hard, save your money, keep looking for better job opportunities, start training once you have enough saved up, shop around for the best flight school, and negotiate. And if you can do it, DO NOT TAKE OUT A LOAN!!
Hope this helps.