Holy cow! Dude, do you understand the concept of "Dont ask, dont tell?" You wanna be a fighter pilot, go for it! If you dont try, you will never know if you could have made it. The dont ask dont tell thing just means, that there are gays in the military, THEY JUST DONT TALK ABOUT IT. I grew up in the Air Force, and believe it or not, I knew a few guys who were gay. But you know what? They didnt go around broadcasting it! Just like, I dont go around telling everyone IM STRAIGHT. Nobody cares. Anyway, expressing your opinion is fine man, but just think it a little more before you express it. I personally knew alot of F-16 pilots, who loved the aircraft. The sidestick is actually very helpful, as it gets your arms out of the way and allows an unobstructed view of the instruments, and under high G loadings you dont have to hold your arm up like you would in an F-18. You can just let it lay on the armrest behind the stick. This helps to reduce fatigue. Which is your absoulte enemy in a combat scenario. The layout, while unconventional, supposedly makes it easier to fight in the aircraft. But then again I am no expert. Just my 2 cents.