Polar742
All the responsibility none of the authority
What verbiage was used to affect this speed reduction? If it was something like "reduce to final approach speed" then I could understand the pilot's disagreement, since that is not a proper instruction.
But pilots know what that means (slow down or take a tour). However, most probably blame the controller at an unfamiliar airport, or if it's somewhere like LGA, it's an eye roll or annoyance at the one plane jamming up the hub arrivals (150 kts up the river? Please for the love of all that is holy).
Then again, I've found that lots of pilots don't know what the minimum assignable speeds are from the AIM, and which are requests.