Yep. Happy to say that I do.Mr_Creepy said:Steve you know me.
I think that Tony has a teacher's heart and intentions. You know how difficult writing style is to interpret on the 'net. His style can be overwhelming at times. Just as mine can be overbearing.I was just surprised at how harsh TonyC was.
Ah, but what you "meant" to imply may not have corresponded with what I inferred you to mean, eh?And I contend that the intent of that scripture was exactly what was meant![]()
TonyC said:Another example of breaking the law, and then lying about it. You admit you were speeding - - what is the problem with paying the fine?
What is it with folks that think they shouldn't have to take responsibility for their own actions?!?!?
Please! If you're not mature enough to face the consequences of your own actions, PLEASE stay off our streets!
I think you understand what you think I meant, but I'm not sure you understand what I think I meant .... I think?SteveC said:Yep. Happy to say that I do.
I think that Tony has a teacher's heart and intentions. You know how difficult writing style is to interpret on the 'net. His style can be overwhelming at times. Just as mine can be overbearing.
Ah, but what you "meant" to imply may not have corresponded with what I inferred you to mean, eh?
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Yep. We're on the same page.Mr_Creepy said:I think you understand what you think I meant, but I'm not sure you understand what I think I meant .... I think?
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Mr_Creepy said:I was just surprised at how harsh TonyC was.
Ripper3785 said:FWIW, re: Red light running
http://www.ticketassassin.com/autoenf.html
I remember reading a similar article in car & driver (or equivalent) a few years back about how people who run the yellow/red lights are not a significant cause of accidents. This type of red-light running gets grouped together with people who absent-mindedly(cell-phone, distracted, etc) run a red light that has been red for 10+ seconds. The red light cameras supposedly aren't busting people who cause accidents.
Don't get me wrong, they're still breaking the law. And blowing 'orange' lights is not defensive driving.
In my head the logic makes sense, aside from the people running yellows when the oncoming left turn is a yield not an arrow, and that guy is sitting out in the intersection waiting for traffic to stop coming. (also an extremely common traffic violation)
In conclusion, I have no actual point to make. +1 to my post count!
Ripper3785 said:FWIW, re: Red light running
http://www.ticketassassin.com/autoenf.html
I remember reading a similar article in car & driver (or equivalent) a few years back about how people who run the yellow/red lights are not a significant cause of accidents. This type of red-light running gets grouped together with people who absent-mindedly(cell-phone, distracted, etc) run a red light that has been red for 10+ seconds. The red light cameras supposedly aren't busting people who cause accidents.
Don't get me wrong, they're still breaking the law. And blowing 'orange' lights is not defensive driving.
In my head the logic makes sense, aside from the people running yellows when the oncoming left turn is a yield not an arrow, and that guy is sitting out in the intersection waiting for traffic to stop coming. (also an extremely common traffic violation)
In conclusion, I have no actual point to make. +1 to my post count!
Bigey said:If you can fight it, and it works, then why not?
Sprint100 said:LMAO Stupid is as stupid does LMAO![]()
Bigey, you'll do whatever you please, but that rationalization needs work!!!
(I'm assuming you're talking about a state where license plates are required on the front and rear of the automobiles.)Bigey said:Solution: Dont have a front plate.
I do blame you, because I don't feel like sharing the road with someone who has such disdain for the law. Your flagrant disregard for the simplest of rules tells me that I can't count on you to maintain a safe place to operate a vehicle. Please, save us all the trouble and heartache, and stick to mass transportation.Bigey said:On 3 of our cars, we dont have front plate. Blame us? Go ahead, but we dont feel like drilling holes in our bumper.
It goes to a principle I learned when I was quite young. Perhaps you missed this when you were growing up.Bigey said:Hey TonyC
If you can fight it, and it works, then why not?
The only lesson you might learn is that you can choke the legal system and get away with doing wrong. That's not the type of lesson I'd like to be teaching my kids.Bigey said:You're still going to learn a lesson whether or not you're forced to pay for it, or have the chance of having to pay for it.
Maybe I can put it in basic terms:Bigey said:Maybe i can try and put it in basic terms.
That is utter nonsense. It is dead wrong. It is incorrect.Bigey said:Also, if any part of the vehicle is over the line, and the light is yellow still - you're legal EVEN if your car proceeds to be in the intersection while the light turns red.
Well, at least you have the part about not accelerating through an intersection correct. As for the second part, I can only assume that you mean "accident" when you're referring to an impact. As I've said before, any impact that might result from travelling through the intersection would be a crash, but it would hardly be an accident. It would only be due to the negligence of one driver or another, or both, that two cars would try to occupy the same space at the same time.Bigey said:Oh and guys, please please please, if you are entering a yellow light please dont hit the gas. If anything, you just are making the impact of a possible accent even greater.
Tony I am with you in spirit, just not in delivery.TonyC said:Please accept my apology, Mr_Creepy, for failing to adequately convey my sentiments. I did not intend to be harsh - - I intended to be blunt.
Since the time you posted this morning, people have died in a car crash. Families who mourn their passing will refer to the event as an "accident," but the fact is, it could have been prevented if the drivers had been engaged in driving defensively, rather than just pointing and pushing the accelerator. When people don't pay attention to what's going on around them, when they act like they're the only ones on the road, when they act like the laws of physics don't apply to them, it's not an accident, it's negligence.
It is a fact that it is more dangerous for me to drive to work than it is to fly around the world, operate into and out of the busiest airports in the world, fly approaches to mins... well, in short, to do my job. It should not be that way.
Driving a car is not a God-given (or even god-given for those of you so inclined) right. It is a privilege, and with it comes a great deal of responsibility. It's not some theme park joy ride feature where you wait in line, hop in, and enjoy the thrill of the wind blowing through your hair until the ride stops back at the station, safely depositing you on the opposite platform. There are no safety rails that guarantee you won't die. That job - - ensuring a safe outcome - - is the sole responsibility of the driver.
Had we detected in the above posts an expression of thankfulness for a lesson learned, or a scintilla of regret for mistakes made, I would likely have not spoken up. On the contrary, we heard denial and anger. What they did was not wrong in their minds, and the bigger issue was the incompetency of the law enforcement officials. We should take it as an insult, then, that someone would turn around and burden our legal system by contesting the punishment imposed.
I take driving a car very seriously. Have I made mistakes? You bet I have. I've done stupid things, and I've suffered consequences. I've been 100% "right" and still had to deal with the body shop. As with anything else in life, I've attempted to share the lessons I've learned the "hard way" with my children as they reach the age when they begin driving. Other lessons, such as the "Smith System of Defensive Driving," were learned much later in my adult life. They know how serious I am about it. It's not a matter of when they'll get to drive, it's a matter of if. IF they demonstrate a proper respect for the automobile and the process of operating it safely from Point A to Point B, they'll get the keys. IF they don't, there's a yellow bus that stops at the corner of our block.I just wish I had been offered at their age the information that I have now. If I can save their lives by teaching them the proper respect for this activity of driving, then it's well worth the effort. I know that it has already prevented "accidents."
If one of my children gave me the story in the above posts, I would have responded to them in just the same way that I did here. I would want them to be too ashamed of their incompetance or negligence to complain about their ticket to their friends. I would want them to regret their mistake, own up to the punishment, and resolve to never do it again. And if they had this attitude, I'd put my arms around them and tell them how much I love them and how glad I am that they're not hurt. Maybe you can understand why I'm so passionate about it.
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Trust me, I have no delusions of curing the world. I just couldn't remain silent while guys brag about breaking the law, criticize the police, and plot to evade the punishment. If I can make just one person think twice before he turns the ignition key, it will have been worth the time typing.Mr_Creepy said:Tony I am with you in spirit, just not in delivery.
At 48 years old, I think I have learned that I will never be able to cure the world of stupid driving.
As long as there are cellphones and valium, for example, we are doomed to idiots.
But I share your sentiments, and yes, I too have a daughter! Turns 5 yrs old tomorrow.
TonyC said:(I'm assuming you're talking about a state where license plates are required on the front and rear of the automobiles.)
Solution to what? Are you advocating that someone flagrantly violate one motor vehicle regulation in order to make it more difficult to be caught violating another? That's a real genius idea.
I do blame you, because I don't feel like sharing the road with someone who has such disdain for the law. Your flagrant disregard for the simplest of rules tells me that I can't count on you to maintain a safe place to operate a vehicle. Please, save us all the trouble and heartache, and stick to mass transportation.
It goes to a principle I learned when I was quite young. Perhaps you missed this when you were growing up.
RIGHT vs. WRONG
If you're wrong, accept the consequences. Fighting the punishment doesn't make you right.
The only lesson you might learn is that you can choke the legal system and get away with doing wrong. That's not the type of lesson I'd like to be teaching my kids.
Maybe I can put it in basic terms:
OBEY THE LAW
That is utter nonsense. It is dead wrong. It is incorrect.
Your car must be completely clear of the intersection when the light turns red. If you do not have sufficient time to clear the intersection before the light turns red, DO NOT ENTER the intersection.
PERIOD.
Well, at least you have the part about not accelerating through an intersection correct. As for the second part, I can only assume that you mean "accident" when you're referring to an impact. As I've said before, any impact that might result from travelling through the intersection would be a crash, but it would hardly be an accident. It would only be due to the negligence of one driver or another, or both, that two cars would try to occupy the same space at the same time.
Somehow people seem to think that we can call them accidents and wash our hands of responsibility. Accidents "happen," right? After all, even our Insurance carriers have given up and just pay damages without placing fault. But the truth is, if we drive like our lives depend on it, if we drive like WE have to pay to fix our own cars, then we can prevent crashes.
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