The overlying point I wanted to convey and I believe you will agree with me is that you can't fly your whole career according to the AIM. I know it's easy to make a reference to it and is definetly a great tool in aviation but as you know better than me there are alot of times when we gotta throw the AIM out and get the job done so to speak.
Mike, I overall agree with your last post, however, the above needs to be clarified a bit. I would answer a very qualified "yes" to the above, with the strong caveat that you MUST understand why the AIM or PANS-OPS guidance was there to begin with. Phraseology is one thing, and, as long as the controller is a native English speaker, you can get away with a lot. That said, try flying in the U.K., Australia, N.Z. or even Canada (to a lesser extent) a bit and you'll quickly discover that U.S. ATC slang is not used there, but each country has their OWN version of ATC slang. While a lot of it is intuitive, not all of it is, which is why it's a problem for it to be used in the first place! Incidentally, controllers are guilty of this as well.
However, phraseology, by itself, usually is not going to cause an accident if other procedures are adhered to. In the theme of AIM procedures that many pilots (and controllers roll along with) deviate from, I would bring your attention to those pilots that do things like go straight in on an approach, even though they did not meet one of the small handful of times you are allowed to do that on a SIAP. They argue that they are aligned, etc., without fully understanding WHY that routing was not listed as NoPt, for example.
There are a LOT of similar issues, and many pilots think that they are legal and O.K. because ATC clears them for it. This is a misunderstanding of both procedure design and what an ATC clearance really means. There are also examples outside of modifying approaches, but you get the idea. Too often people are doing things to shortcut the system or modify it in ways that they think are better without fully understanding the "why". I think that is what also gets Tgrayson actively responding to things here!
I have seen this in the airline world, with pilots modifying certain procedures without fully understanding how the system worked, windshear guidance comes to mind immediately, on that, but also taxi procedures, etc. In fact, the AA 587 accident is a good example of this.
If you have come up with something valid, then you can submit a change to the document, that will be reviewed and applied if deemed appropriate, by the way.