I don’t have any family or really any friends, so with more than one day off I get pretty bored at home. I try to stack my months so I work a lot at one end and then have the other end free to travel – like single days off in-between six day work blocks. At home at the end of my single day off, with the laundry complete and a fresh supply peanut butter and bagels, I’m usually pretty excited to get back to work.
I live in base. If you’re a cute foreign girl I’ll tell you that I live Los Angeles; but to anyone who knows the area I’ll let them know that I stay as far away from the city as I can, in an affluent hilltop community looking down upon the peasants in the city. It’s a 30-minute drive to work, and a five-minute drive to the beach.
The day-to-day routine is similar to what others have posted. Wake up, get to the plane or sit at the gate waiting for a delayed inbound. I’ll usually pretend to chat with the gate agent while really I scope out the passengers for some cute girls that I won’t end up having the balls to talk too; they don't know what four stripes means anyways.
If I’m with a cool FO we will sit there BSing about random stuff, talking crap about other people, and come up with a plan for the layover. When it's a meh FO they'll talk while I pretend to care. Sometimes I sit there doing the cruise items required to by both the PM and PF since airplane WiFi is way too easy for a FO to covertly use, and Tinder is obviously more important that things like fuel planning. Also, I spend a lot of time explaining, “Well your last captain was a moron. Have you ever actually opened the book? Read it, don’t trust what some captain told you – it’s usually wrong”.
Departures and arrivals are where the excitement still is. As a captain I hand fly way more than I ever did as a FO - there’s nobody to the left to get nervous and say no. Every time I get to click off the autopilot and remove the flight director while entering a downwind, as long as the landing doesn’t suck, the “debrief items” of the Parking Checklist is me grinning saying “well that was fun!”
Unfortunately lately we have had some significant delays, and this is where many of my colleagues get frustrated. I secretly kind of enjoy handling these. To me it turns into a puzzle: what can I say or do to keep these people from getting irate? The other day we had a four-hour delay before eventually postponing the flight until 7:30am the next morning. As we walked off headed to the hotel, every passenger still thanked the crew and myself. That felt great. 20 hours later at 7:30am, the stranded passengers were excited to see us; but I had to deliver the news that the plane was not fixed, will be flown empty back to LAX, and they are all still stranded. Even then, the passengers all thanked us for trying so hard. Something about that feels like I still accomplished something.
Work can be fun, but as everyone else has said, this job is about the days off, and I'll add to it, this job is about the days off and pass travel. This month I work 14 days, and have 11 ½ consecutive days off to travel. Last month I spent 19 days off traveling.
@jtrain609 talked about nobody can work long stretches without getting burned out. Generally I agree, but I’m a special case I suppose. At about the halfway point of my large work blocks, I start felling it. Then I remember that in about a week I’ll be on a plane paying relatively nothing to collect a passport stamp from Iran. Eventually back at work, I’ll still be happy from the previous trip until halfway point, at which point I’m starting to get excited for the next adventure.
This job works for me.