This it a tough question. You are probably going to get a TON of positive and negative feedback about this. The first thing I would do is really search your soul.
Things to consider before you pursue this career:
-Is aviation something you are truly passionate about?
-Are you doing this because you heard pilots can make 100k+? While the statement is true, it can be a very long road to a salary even slightly close to that but you will probably be only making in the lower 20k-40k your first few yrs at a regional airline.
-Cost for training is extremely high if you go through a University or accredited collage. Mine cost me ~60K, some have paid as much as 140K.
-If you become a commuter, as you stated, keep in mind that it is possible you might have to (not always) commute in or out to a trip on your day off because you couldn't get a flight to get you to/from work before a trip started thus cutting down on your actual days off. While you are on reserve you are more than likely going to have to get a crashpad, which is another added cost. Living in base provides a quality of life unparalleled to that of a commuters in my honest opinion, but I know commuters who do it and accept what it is and the seem just as happy as people who live in base.
Now, all that being said I am not trying to scare you just give a dose of reality soup. I was not a smart as you were and did not do a lot of research into some of these things when I began my journey, of course most of these resources were not available back then.
If you are willing to deal with a lot of the above mentioned stuff, then this job can be a VERY rewarding career and it truly comes down to what you make of it. The industry is going through some changes, which should better it for current and upcoming pilots futures, but it is a volatile industry and things can go from good to bad, or bad to good in a bat of an eye.
This is a fun and challenging career and regardless of the storms I have had to weather along the way, I truly do enjoy what I do everytime I step into the cockpit. Keep doing your research and don't jump in until you have the facts to make an informed decision.
Good luck, and feel free to send me a message if I can answer some more questions.
