I'm not bringing my family down with me. I didn't bring them down when I went to Air Force Tech School and I"m glad I didn't. There is just a lot of stuff to learn, especially for someone with no experience.
At this time, I could probably bring my family to OKC and it not bother me because i'm a rated controller now, but I'm still not going to because I'd rather just not take the chance of being distracted.
I tell everyone this. You have to be extremely dedicated to this job to want to learn it and see it through. My family took a backseat to my training for a couple of weeks. Luckily, I have a wife that understands that and helped me through the training, even though she was raising a 4 month old on her own.