SpiceWeasel
Tre Kronor
Doesn't matter what "they" came up with. If housing and utilities takes 59.6% of your actual income (I can't even fathom that), then it's far far too much. You have to change that. It's far beyond what you can actually afford, unless your life plan is to live paycheck to paycheck.
Well, I get a pay raise in 7 months! Woo hoo!
I did my best to keep the payment as low as possible: my down payment on my condo was $38,000. It was my savings. All of it. So I'm currently borrowing $124,000 at 4.5% that has been paid down for about a year so far. 1156 sq ft condo, $155,000 sale price.
It's an asset, that's why I purchased rather than continue to rent.