To your first point, fair enough.
Secondly, you don't have to be an instructor to meet these "fine folks," but I do seem to see them more in my professional capacity as an instructor. I would venture that people who don't give a flip about being good, safe pilots probably won't be in the Cirrus Owners forums. They also won't be the ones you meet at the FAA or AOPA safety meetings. (the people I know that fit that mold never showed up to said meetings). You might find them BSing around the hangars, but my experience has been that most of them don't hang out at the airport. When they get to the airport, they hop in the plane, hit "direct to", and go fly.
I honestly hope I've had a bad sampling. For the record, of the three people who just immediately come to mind, only one owns a Cirrus. I also know a Cirrus owner who I would put my wife and parents in the plane with them any time without a second thought. So I'm NOT bashing Cirrus pilots or their airplanes. I've seen the same thing with Bonanzas, Senecas, and even 172s.
I'm not trying to argue, just say that there are people out there who aren't contentious.
Merry Christmas.