Sorry to hear that man! Sounds like you have a good handle on things though.
As for the dispatcher question. I haven't personally been a dispatcher, but know quite a few through my days as a firefighter. It's not a bad gig at all - especially if you can leave it all at work. Generally speaking, I would think well trained commercial pilots would be excellent at it. Much of it is procedural, but there's a lot of technique in keeping radio traffic to a minimum while maintaining a high level of communication. Also, the scheduling might be ideal for continuing your schooling. Many times, the shifts are 12 or 24 hours - day on, day off, day on, 5 off. You're already used to an abnormal schedule, but this way you'll be close to home - which is pretty cool when you have a new born.
What are you studying through Troy anyway?